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I didn't mean to say that I applaud her for sleeping with her friends fiance I meant it as in the grand scheme of themes it worked out for the best because it saved her from marrying a no good man. I do agree though that ignoring his advances and telling her friend would have been the better option ( assuming of course her friend believed her).
I wonder how her friend found out about the affaiir to begin with since she states her own family still does not know about it?
You are NOT a friend. You don't know what the definition of what a friend is. Consider yourself lucky, if you were in my inner circle, you would have gotten it worst than just being ignored.
This post and the various comments are actually funnier than Zola's story, the OP had me amazed and amused at the same time, I thought I'd met narcissistic obtuse people but this one takes the cake, she screws her best friends man, breaks up the relationship, continues to eff around with the lowlife until his drug issues were too much even for her,in the meantime her former friend, smart woman that she is sweeps the garbage out of her life, marries someone else and moves on with her life, furthermore showing her class and breeding, she is polite to the OP and remains friendly with her relatives, the OP looks around her life is shyte, while her former friend has moved on and found a hopefully more trustworthy man, and she enjoys a great relationship with various people, the OP wants back in, she keeps inserting herself into the poor woman's life, she invites herself to the wedding , she calls her on the phone,it burns her up that the smart former friend wants nothing to do with her, she's perplexed, 'but she forgave her sister', well OP ,how do you even know that the sister slept with the ex fiancee, and if she did it's her prerogative, 'but I'm sorry for what I did' sorry doesn't amount to hill of beans for the friend,and the excuses continue, - the Op was shy,hearing impaired, in a bad place, a virgin , yadda yadda yadda, it's like dealing with a 2 year old, it's all about what she wants, nothing else matters, and as others pointed out, the main reason she actually wanted to be friends again was because the ex friend is close to the OP's relatives and she's jealous. The simple fact she seemed to miss was that sometimes the betrayal cuts so deep you can't get over it,it doesn't matter how sorry the offender is, at the end she did seem to come to terms with it '
"Yeah theres really no reason why I should be contacting her when I have people that want to be with me"
Good luck to those people
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