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Old 12-31-2014, 12:30 PM
 
Location: Canada
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No not sex with family thats just gross.. I mean im having problems with sex in general because of my mother. I live at home because im currently in a course for a job im going into. Anyway my mother has a strict law on sex, like im 20 years old. She comes into peoples room to make sure that know one is "touching themselves" i one time found a camera in my room (i know crazy!) i pulled it out.. She hid it pretty well. She has always been like this ever since i was young. But im getting fed up. I installed a lock on my door and she started screaming and losing it. She has problems with my dad because she refuses to have sex because its "unclean" and not right. I dont know whats wrong with her. Its 5 times she has brought me to a emergency psyc because ahe claimed i was crazy for thinking about girls and sometimes looking at them a little more.. And lastly for finding porn on my computer. And all 5 times they send me home saying im normal. Is there something wrong with my mom? Because honestly i think there is.. Whats your input?
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Old 12-31-2014, 12:33 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I think you should wait until you grow up and move into your own place and then your mother is not an issue.
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Old 12-31-2014, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Canada
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I do realize i live under roof.. Im just wondering why she is like this?
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Old 12-31-2014, 12:35 PM
 
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Yes, there is something terribly wrong with your mom. It surprises me that you have to ask.

You are 20 years old. Move out.
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Old 12-31-2014, 12:36 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Originally Posted by helpingfalcon View Post
Is there something wrong with my mom?
Yes.
It's scary that you need to ask.
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Old 12-31-2014, 12:37 PM
 
Location: Self explanatory
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What happened to your mom to make her like this, that's the bigger underlying question.


Secondly, why can't you do your thing at your partners place?
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Old 12-31-2014, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Well her family seems pretty normal.. They have a hard time with her as well... But she believes shes right
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Old 12-31-2014, 12:51 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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My grandmother told me I was stupid because I loved to draw. My grandpa was a talented artist and she hated him for dumping her, she took all her anger out on my brother and I because we are both pretty talented artists. Yes, she was crazy or stupid, not me. It takes a while for me to realize that.

You cannot change your mom's mind, believe me. If you can, maybe moving out is your only solution. If not, then throw out all the cameras. You deserve privacy. Almost everybody pleasures him or herself. Forget about her and do your thing.
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Old 12-31-2014, 01:12 PM
 
Location: NY
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Time to man up and move out if you cannot live under their rules in their home. I do not mean that to sound cruel either. It's just going to be the only solution for you with a positive outcome for yourself.
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Old 12-31-2014, 01:18 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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You're too old for her to be able to drag you to a psych ward or emergency room. She no longer has any legal right to do that. Once you finish the class you're taking, move.

She's freaking out about the lock on your door because she's a control freak. She figures, it's her house, she should be able to go wherever she wants in it. She's the kind of mom that believes kids don't have a right to privacy. There are a lot of moms like that around, not just disturbed moms, like yours.
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