Should I call my Mother?

[GraceKrispy]

Sounds like you made your decision based on what was posted here. I think only you can really know if you want to call her. If it's worth it to try to forget a relationship, you know what she wants to hear. If not, you owe her nothing at this point, and you've even given her a chance.

Sorry you don't have the kind of birth mother we all deserve.