Friends SO was/is child molester (boyfriend, guilty, member, husband)

[Destiny74]

He only admitted because he failed the lie detector test. And of course his parole officer knows and they are investigating/ taking depositions already. She only told me because I was there when they called her to take a deposition over the phone.

So, everyone, please know the authorities are on this already.

[ground_pounder]

once a molester always a molester. i heard that story over and over that there reformed i call BS. after seeing those ones that are so called reformed going up to under age kids trying to be all buddy buddy and there best friend. makes me sick.. put a bullet in there head and put them six feet under then they will be reformed!!!

[historyfan]

You know the answer. Tell your friend that she is out of her flipping mind. Cut all ties.

[ground_pounder]

there's no way in hell that i would let my kids be friends with chester the molester. and what would you do if he pulled some stunt with your daughter i bet that would change your mind real fast. and don't say it won't happen it just may given time!!! not to be rude but i think that your daughter has poor taste in judgement on her friends i think that she can do alot better!!! and how do you know that he wasn't trying to manipulate her brain into being his friend so that he could get close to her. reformed molesters still get those urges if you know what i mean!!!

[picklejuice]

Originally Posted by usayit

You should be supportive of your friend. I would also make it clear that their SO makes me uncomfortable but I value their friendship.

I have a strong aversion to people who use sex as a power influence (rapists, molesters, pua, esp pimps). I have little respect for them and I have yet to see one "reformed". No way would them be allowed around my children.

^^^Good answer.

Your friend has a "picker" that is off. Too bad. I fear her decision to give the degenerate a chance is going to bite her in the butt!

[Nov3]

When embellishing .. 25 years probation ? In what alternate universe? I don't buy it .

Since you are giving just enough to create the illusion he is more active in this behavior.. Perhaps you can run his rap sheet and present it to your friend. online feedback isn't going to get to the root of the truth.

Still reeling that 25 years probation comment. Someone fed you a big heep of bull if you think that is true.

[CGab]

I value all my friendships and I have a few good friends that I have had for over 20 years and my best friend and I have been friends for 30 years. With that said I have also moved on from a lot of friendships over the years because I won't tolerate "stupid"!!! And your friend is just plain STUPID! Sorry, but time to move on. Child molesting is unforgivable in my opinion and anyone who is willing to accept a person into their life who has done such a thing is just plain "STUPID". There's no point in even trying to talk to her. If she is willing to be around someone like that then that is someone you don't want in your life. Sorry!

[forum_browser]

If she were just dating him and in denial about his character, that would be one thing. If my friend fell for a sex criminal and his self-justifying lies and manipulations, I'd be deeply concerned about her welfare and stability. But in light of her involvement in his sketchy grooming activities, I don't think I could maintain a relationship of any sort, unless she expressed honest remorse for her behavior and stopped it, stat.

[Kgryfon]

Why don't you go to the national database for sex offenders and look him up?

[Stacey27520]

Walk away now. As a parent that has a son who was sexually molested, your friend is making excuses for this pervert's actions. They are both f-ed up. There is no reason to even question that friendship. .. part ways!