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Old 10-29-2018, 11:37 AM
 
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We have been friends for 3 years.
She lives with her kid with the parents in public housing. I don’t think she’s on the lease.
I assume she pays no rent because she refuses to work.
Refuses to work for less than $15 an hour. Unemployed for a year. Whines no money, I’m a single mother etc.

Has 2 iPhones and if we meet has $ to pay for herself . Basically tired of listening to her complain. Her life is good. If it wasn’t for her parents enabling she would have to work to support herself.

Should I dump her as a friend?
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Old 10-29-2018, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Northern California
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You don't seem to like her very much, so why waste your time?
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Old 10-29-2018, 11:44 AM
 
Location: DFW
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I think you're already not friends, since you didn't say one nice thing about her.

Why are you hanging out with somebody you have no respect for?
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Old 10-29-2018, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Central Florida
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Would you be asking this question if she worked and supported herself?
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Old 10-29-2018, 11:56 AM
 
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Would you be asking this question if she worked and supported herself?
Yes because all she does is complain how much her life sucks. Also is extremely jealous of others. She is always negative...
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Old 10-29-2018, 12:03 PM
 
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Is there anything you do like about her?
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Old 10-29-2018, 12:38 PM
 
Location: 89052 & 75206
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I simply will not allow negative people to remain in my life.
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Old 10-29-2018, 01:07 PM
 
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Yes because all she does is complain how much her life sucks. Also is extremely jealous of others. She is always negative...
Negative people can drain you. Some people seem to enjoy being that way and sucking the life out of others around them.

I'd cut your losses and just drift her out of your life. If she calls you, just say you are busy. She'll figure it out soon enough...
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Old 10-29-2018, 01:09 PM
 
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Negative people can drain you. Some people seem to enjoy being that way and sucking the life out of others around them.

I'd cut your losses and just drift her out of your life. If she calls you, just say you are busy. She'll figure it out soon enough...
Last 3 weeks I was too busy to meet lol. Yeah I’m done being her friend. A mutual friend had a baby 2 weeks ago. Man is she jealous of her...
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Old 10-29-2018, 01:12 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Last 3 weeks I was too busy to meet lol. Yeah I’m done being her friend. A mutual friend had a baby 2 weeks ago. Man is she jealous of her...
Yeah, we get it, you hate your ex-friend. Glad you already know the answer to your own question.
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