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What to do with this friend?
I have a problem with a friend I have had for a long time and wanting to know what advise I could get to handle this problem?She is a good person or should I say was a good person till about 4 months ago.We worked together and spent a lot of free time going shopping ,going to the local bar just to dance,talking about just darn near every thing. We could have not been closer if we were sisters.Then for reasons that were her own doing got let go at the job. We still stayed great friends out side of the job and I even found her a new job through connections with other friends.Then all of a sudden she got a whole new world.She started to hang around people that do drugs and drink and drive and just all around do crazy things.When I call her to just come over and talk she would give me some reason why she is busy then I would get a text from her 3hours later telling me she missed being around me and how I am missing the big party.The last time I caved in and went out with her she said it would just be me and her and we would go see a live band at a club.She called all her friends and they met us at the bar and I almost got my head knocked off by her so called friends because I was not like them.The on going joke of the night was i should be a cop since i do not know how to have fun.I want my old friend back and I am at a lost on what to do.
Thanks every one. Yes, my feelings are hurt but I am going to stop all my calls to her asking if she is okay and would she like to talk.
Maybe one day she will need me and I hope for her sake it is not from a jail cell or her family calling to tell me she is gone.
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