"Stop touching your penis" (punish, adults, behavior, better)

[DewDropInn]

Originally Posted by nightcrawler

****mental thought**** (I wish I could lock them in a closet and throw the key away, sometimes )


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I always tried to keep in mind that there were many times they probably wanted to lock ME in the closet and throw away the key.

[nightcrawler]

Originally Posted by DewDropInn

I always tried to keep in mind that there were many times they probably wanted to lock ME in the closet and throw away the key.

yeah seriously,

OK, paw, throw the kid in the basement, and throw down a slice of bread every once and a while...

[Dave5150]

Originally Posted by Mightyqueen801

Plus, pinching a buttcheek in the supermarket when your child is in the carriage seat is something you can do stealthily without someone calling CPS because they saw you spank your obnoxious, unruly child.

If you gotta hide it, it aint right. I know that seems harsh and I know that some people call CPS ridiculously, over everything, but in NJ an open hand on the bottom is completely legal. Pinching is mean. And has the potential to bruise.

[purehuman]

Originally Posted by Dave5150

Yes I have. In my best mom voice with my mom eyes I say stop, its not nice. Sorry after saying it 100 hundred time in half as many days, i know its not working. He either doesnt remember or doesnt care. I say he doesnt care. Now I need a new route. Which I think is if you want to touch your penis, go to your room and do it.

I know what you're going through....most little people go through the touch and feel themselves stage....I always told my little ones that there's nothing wrong with it, but that it was something they were only to do in their rooms....I told them it was embarrassing for others to see, and something only done in private....they seemed to understand allright....and kept it to their rooms after that.

[purehuman]

Originally Posted by Dave5150

I know you guys are picking on me about it but seriously i know he will get over it, i just dont want him yanking his penis in public :/

Tell him anytime you see him you're gonna give him a big, noisy wet smooch in public....bet he won't want that?

[Lucidkitty]

Originally Posted by purehuman

Tell him anytime you see him you're gonna give him a big, noisy wet smooch in public....bet he won't want that?

I think that only works with teens

[Baldrick]

Originally Posted by Lucidkitty

I think that only works with teens

and Husbands.

[nightcrawler]

Originally Posted by Dave5150

If you gotta hide it, it aint right. I know that seems harsh and I know that some people call CPS ridiculously, over everything, but in NJ an open hand on the bottom is completely legal. Pinching is mean. And has the potential to bruise.

i dont agree, i like pinching.
I think spanking is mean.

[Irish Eyes]

Dear God - what have I gotten myself into?

[lhpartridge]

I couldn't help but think of this thread today when I had to tell a 16-year-old junior to get his hands out of his pants. The class was mortified and agreed with me when I sent him to the restroom to wash his hands. They didn't want him touching anything--the hall pass, the door knob, etc. He didn't seem too upset about it. He was sitting in the front of the class in full view of everyone and right in front of me.

Tell me again how long it takes for boys to learn not to play with it in public? I got the message early without anyone having to tell me twice. Just the threat of a spanking was enough to keep me on the straight and narrow.