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Old 12-15-2015, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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My 12 yr old was cought the 1st time touching himself in his bed while his 5 yr old sister was in her bed in the same room and we explained to him that it is ok to do that but not in the room with your sister then he was cought again a couple weeks latter at my moms watching tv with her in moms room under the blanket with his arm around her and i flipped the **** out and told what had happened to me and how it had ****ed my life up so bad and that he didn't want that to happen to her and he was sorry and it would never happen again and then today his step mother tells me that he was cought kissing his other sister who is 7 yrs old under the blanket while he was touching himself and his dad and her flipped out and same thing sorry and it will never happen again. What do i do? And what would be making this happen please help i am losing my mind
I have no advice, but try starting a new thread. You might get more responses. Good luck!
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Old 12-16-2015, 05:50 PM
 
Location: North America
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My 12 yr old was cought the 1st time touching himself in his bed while his 5 yr old sister was in her bed in the same room and we explained to him that it is ok to do that but not in the room with your sister then he was cought again a couple weeks latter at my moms watching tv with her in moms room under the blanket with his arm around her and i flipped the **** out and told what had happened to me and how it had ****ed my life up so bad and that he didn't want that to happen to her and he was sorry and it would never happen again and then today his step mother tells me that he was cought kissing his other sister who is 7 yrs old under the blanket while he was touching himself and his dad and her flipped out and same thing sorry and it will never happen again. What do i do? And what would be making this happen please help i am losing my mind
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Old 04-23-2018, 03:35 AM
 
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I think this is the governments and schools fault for this. My daughter just turn 15 and she has yet to take a sex Ed class. Wen I was younger all 5th & 6th graders were required to take sex Ed unles ur parents signed a paper with holding you. My son is about to turn 13 and he too has never had a sex Ed class and the way this world is becoming I find it completely insulting lazy and mostly sad that our schools have let this important necessity slip and ppl wonder why it’s so easy for predators to prey. Something needs to happen bcuz in 20 year nearly everyone will have some kind of sexual charge
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Old 04-23-2018, 04:12 AM
 
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Some might say it's "lazy and sad" that parents completely delegated this "important necessity" to the schools. There's no reason you couldn't provide this information to your children.
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Old 04-23-2018, 04:24 AM
 
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Some might say it's "lazy and sad" that parents completely delegated this "important necessity" to the schools. There's no reason you couldn't provide this information to your children.
Good grief! Parents really wait for the schools to do this.
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Old 04-23-2018, 05:26 AM
 
Location: Watervliet, NY
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I think this is the governments and schools fault for this. My daughter just turn 15 and she has yet to take a sex Ed class. Wen I was younger all 5th & 6th graders were required to take sex Ed unles ur parents signed a paper with holding you. My son is about to turn 13 and he too has never had a sex Ed class and the way this world is becoming I find it completely insulting lazy and mostly sad that our schools have let this important necessity slip and ppl wonder why it’s so easy for predators to prey. Something needs to happen bcuz in 20 year nearly everyone will have some kind of sexual charge
WTF aren't YOU teaching them??????? Don't be one of those parents who completely abdicate their parental responsibility.
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Old 04-23-2018, 07:02 AM
 
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Teach your kids sex Ed at home. Otherwise you will be grandparents
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Old 04-23-2018, 08:15 AM
 
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The original thread is 6 years old and the most recent provocative comment is from a first time poster.
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Old 04-23-2018, 08:22 AM
 
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Yes, I saw that.
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Old 04-24-2018, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Southeast TN
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I think this is the governments and schools fault for this. My daughter just turn 15 and she has yet to take a sex Ed class. Wen I was younger all 5th & 6th graders were required to take sex Ed unles ur parents signed a paper with holding you. My son is about to turn 13 and he too has never had a sex Ed class and the way this world is becoming I find it completely insulting lazy and mostly sad that our schools have let this important necessity slip and ppl wonder why it’s so easy for predators to prey. Something needs to happen bcuz in 20 year nearly everyone will have some kind of sexual charge
There was no "sex ed" in my schooling either. We learned about it from the Police Academy film series, mostly. No sexual charges to this day.
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