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Oh jeez. Call Children's Services and have them pick her up. Your house is no place for a child. What the hell were you thinking, letting a 15 year old girl sleep with your son?
Are you sure it's the boyfriend's son and not the boyfriend who is sleeping with her? Because the boyfriend is the one who needs to lay down the law to his son and then take him to the woodshed if the son refuses to listen to him. His son sleeping with this girl isn't something you should even be having to deal with. I can't believe you didn't say anything to the boyfriend about it and the boyfriend just let it slide.
I agree with everyone else. Tell the girl (AND your boyfriend AND his son) that she's got one week to get out and that if she doesn't leave by then, you'll have the police take her to Juvenile Hall. If she doesn't like following your rules or her mother's rules, she'll dislike following theirs a whole bunch more, so she better get her s**t together. Take it from one who's been there. Those places suck hard.
By the way, who owns the house? Because if it's yours and if the boyfriend is camped out in your house and isn't going to make his son behave, or if he cares so little about how you feel that he can't help you out with this, then maybe he's someone who needs to take a hike out the front door as well. Along with his kid.
Check the laws in your state. If you have invited someone to stay in your home, even for a short period of time (in some states, days or a few weeks), then they are considered a tenant and you have to formally evict them. Of course, a 15 year old may not be of age to acquire a legal status like that, but who knows.
My point is that it is sometimes harder to get rid of people than you think. Good luck.
All good advice above. The police will not be interested in your guest problem. Just change the locks. Then if you have a trespass or vandalism problem the police will get involved.
All good advice above. The police will not be interested in your guest problem. Just change the locks. Then if you have a trespass or vandalism problem the police will get involved.
The police absolutely will be interested. This is a 15 year old; the welfare of the child is in danger. Of course, it is the child who is putting herself in danger, but that is a government problem that starts with a call to the police.
Unfortunately the OP really needs to get the government involved. Either child services directly, or the police (who will just call child services). Your best bet would be to have a meeting with the girl and her mom telling them both what you are about to do, then give them a day to fix the situation, then call the police and wash your hands of the situation.
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