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It does make sense, but keep in mind that not all gays say they want to be just like everybody else, and of those who do, I would guess that a large number of them don't attend those events. Even 20 years ago, I'd say that only about half the gay community would come out for those parades; I would guess that the percentage has gone down over the years. In part, that's what has allowed the more fringe elements to stand out and get attention.
Here's my statement: Gays are NOT just like everybody else. Their life experiences are often different from non-gays. With the preferences that society gives to heterosexuality, to me, there's almost no way that a homosexual can grow up to feel completely normal. It can be a constant psychological battle.
I know that gays have very different experiences but really the only difference between gays and heteros is in the bedroom. I think very outspoken gays that attempt IMO to push it in others faces are a huge reason many have a negative opinion of gays. It all comes down to respect. I will respect you and your lifestyle if you respect mine. I understand that it is extremely hard for gay in many areas but "pushing" it is not the answer. I am not saying hide the fact that you are gay but it should not be the focal point of your life. I am a heterosexual woman but that is not who I am if that makes sense. I have never personally met an "in your face" gay person all of the gays I know are very low key in that area. They don't hide but they don't publicize it either. I truly fell badly for gays because it can not be easy to live in a world where people look at you like you are different. As I said in my eyes the only difference is in the bedroom and we should stay out of each others bedrooms.
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That's all great, but impressions do matter, and the impression that many have is a negative one. They think about the nudity and what they see as freakish or overly sexual behavior.
They are always good for interesting b-roll to shoot for the evening news. And you can always get a few off-the-cuff interview from some of the most interesting and terrifying people (by appearance, not in a physical threating sense).
But they are fun to go and watch and most are fun people. Family friendly.
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