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Old 05-28-2018, 05:39 PM
 
Location: South Dakota
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1) wash, rinse repeat..... you gave YOURSELF a five star rating.

2) WTH ( heck) does this have to do with what I posted? Lol
#1) Actually lovehound was replying to this post, not bragging on himself out of the blue.:

"Originally Posted by kitty61
A man who is attentive and communicative with me and chivalrous, I am happy to "reward" him. The more he pays attention to what arouses me I am more willing to engage."

So he describes how he treats women, big deal? It doesn't bother me as a woman. Why does it irk you so much? If you don't like it then scroll past. Why give the guy such a hard time, for amusement? Besides, he was flirting with kitty, not us. Then you had to get all serious on him .

#2) You insinuated that he wasn't giving out happy endings. He said that he had no problem in that area. If one method doesn't work, another hopefully will. He answered your post just fine.

He also made some very good points. His idea of mutual std tests before beginning an intimate LT relationship is an excellent one. Start off with a clean slate, so to speak.

As for his post being pertinent to what you said:

Originally Posted by Sydney123
"Nobody asked for details...about your make up sex. That being said... if you're not giving her a happy ending... you might want to work on that. It might prevent some future fights. "

All he said about makeup sex was that the woman was crazy, and that it was good, and that's it. Is saying it was good too many details for you? You also assumed something that wasn't so, and he made it plain what was so.
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Old 05-28-2018, 05:47 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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#1) Actually lovehound was replying to this post, not bragging on himself out of the blue.:

"Originally Posted by kitty61
A man who is attentive and communicative with me and chivalrous, I am happy to "reward" him. The more he pays attention to what arouses me I am more willing to engage."

So he describes how he treats women, big deal? It doesn't bother me as a woman. Why does it irk you so much? If you don't like it then scroll past. Why give the guy such a hard time, for amusement? Besides, he was flirting with kitty, not us. Then you had to get all serious on him .

#2) You insinuated that he wasn't giving out happy endings. He said that he had no problem in that area. If one method doesn't work, another hopefully will. He answered your post just fine.

He also made some very good points. His idea of mutual std tests before beginning an intimate LT relationship is an excellent one. Start off with a clean slate, so to speak.

As for his post being pertinent to what you said:

Originally Posted by Sydney123
"Nobody asked for details...about your make up sex. That being said... if you're not giving her a happy ending... you might want to work on that. It might prevent some future fights. "

All he said about makeup sex was that the woman was crazy, and that it was good, and that's it. Is saying it was good too many details for you? You also assumed something that wasn't so, and he made it plain what was so.
What are you.... his mom?
And yes... I was messing with him a little, it's called having a sense of humor... you should try it.

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Old 05-28-2018, 06:06 PM
 
Location: South Dakota
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What are you.... his mom?
And yes... I was messing with him a little, it's called having a sense of humor... you should try it.
What are you, his sex therapist?

I saw no humor in your post, only offense.
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Old 05-28-2018, 06:16 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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What are you, his sex therapist?

I saw no humor in your post, only offense.
Geez! You can crawl back under your bridge now..... you bore me.
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Old 05-28-2018, 06:45 PM
 
Location: South Dakota
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Geez! You can crawl back under your bridge now..... you bore me.
Ask me if I care .
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Old 05-29-2018, 01:52 AM
 
Location: colorado springs, CO
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You could've said all that with a lot less words.
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You could have quoted that with a lot less words. Goose; gander.
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That doesn't make sense.
By minimizing how much of my post you re-posted. Like this:

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... You're sort of right but everything I say after this will be in relation to me only as I can't speak for others ...

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You could've said all that with a lot less words.
Sorry. I only do that when I write. I’m actually pretty quiet in person. Plus, I think I was reacting to this:

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1. He gets mad at her and is justified in doing so: She may want to have sex because she doesn't want him to be upset with her. She wants to make things better and feel closer to him.

2. He stands up for himself: She gets turned on by his boldness/self-confidence. He stands up for what he believes in, exuding a great deal of masculine energy in the process.
... & I was trying to rise above it & think of a positive example. Because I feel a lot of contempt regarding #1.
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Old 05-29-2018, 08:04 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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Folks, let's end the meta-topic and get back to the topic. Please.
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Old 05-29-2018, 08:08 AM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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I don't think there is a psychology of female sexuality. Maybe some tendencies, but as others have said, those tendencies are more based on the constraints we place on men and women and their self expression, sexual or otherwise.

OP seems to be looking for a playbook.
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Old 05-29-2018, 08:28 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV.
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By minimizing how much of my post you re-posted. Like this:



Sorry. I only do that when I write. I’m actually pretty quiet in person. Plus, I think I was reacting to this:



... & I was trying to rise above it & think of a positive example. Because I feel a lot of contempt regarding #1.
I agree. Really immature and barbaric. #1.
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Old 05-29-2018, 08:54 AM
 
Location: Posting from my space yacht.
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By minimizing how much of my post you re-posted. Like this:



Sorry. I only do that when I write. I’m actually pretty quiet in person. Plus, I think I was reacting to this:



... & I was trying to rise above it & think of a positive example. Because I feel a lot of contempt regarding #1.
Ah well apparently it's me who wasn't making sense then. What I meant was your post seemed to be saying the same thing I had said.
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