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Old 06-18-2021, 04:42 PM
 
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Oh goodie, the tip topic again.

Yeah JK, saw a news item this week of one Cary restaurant owner who is doing this. I get his point about getting the backline staff covered as well as the waitstaff, but that sounds like pay scales are not aligned properly. Also, doesn't that suggest that the waitstaff will get less and they have less incentive for better service unless they are naturally wired that way?

We tip 20% unless the the service didn't earn that, and round up in almost all other cases. We don't do 25%.

We probably won't patronize places that force a 20% service charge / gratuity. While most of the service we've had in recent memory has been in the round-up camp, there's been some substandard service that didn't, last week for example.

I much prefer the practice in Japan and Singapore - a flat 10% service charge and people in those roles are paid properly, and in Japan at least, have willing and knowledgeable service capabilities and mentalities.

This ain't those places. And tipping in general is still wacky in the US.
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Old 06-18-2021, 05:09 PM
 
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I always tips 20% already so this just saves me doing the math. I've been to Pizzeria Toro in Durham many times. I'm not worried about the staff slacking off there. Great place!
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Old 06-18-2021, 05:14 PM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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Oh goodie, the tip topic again.

Yeah JK, saw a news item this week of one Cary restaurant owner who is doing this. I get his point about getting the backline staff covered as well as the waitstaff, but that sounds like pay scales are not aligned properly. Also, doesn't that suggest that the waitstaff will get less and they have less incentive for better service unless they are naturally wired that way?

We tip 20% unless the the service didn't earn that, and round up in almost all other cases. We don't do 25%.

We probably won't patronize places that force a 20% service charge / gratuity. While most of the service we've had in recent memory has been in the round-up camp, there's been some substandard service that didn't, last week for example.

I much prefer the practice in Japan and Singapore - a flat 10% service charge and people in those roles are paid properly, and in Japan at least, have willing and knowledgeable service capabilities and mentalities.

This ain't those places. And tipping in general is still wacky in the US.
Tipping is whatever. People are wack.
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Old 06-18-2021, 05:41 PM
 
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Tipping is whatever. People are wack.
Crack is whack!
Sorry had to do it
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Old 06-18-2021, 05:46 PM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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I honestly could go either way with the tipping thing. But what I’m curious about is what do restaurant employees prefer or feel about this?
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Old 06-18-2021, 06:41 PM
 
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Crack is whack!
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I honestly could go either way with the tipping thing. But what I’m curious about is what do restaurant employees prefer or feel about this?
Lemmesee....
Cash tips, as all suave and debonair diners offer, or documented on a credit slip?

I tip with cash, and it always seems to be VERY well-received.
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Old 06-18-2021, 06:54 PM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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Lemmesee....
Cash tips, as all suave and debonair diners offer, or documented on a credit slip?

I tip with cash, and it always seems to be VERY well-received.
cash?? what the hell is that???

-Millennial who just bought his groceries with Apple Pay
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Old 06-18-2021, 07:04 PM
 
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cash?? what the hell is that???

-Millennial who just bought his groceries with Apple Pay
Cash? It is King. Ask your server how they like to get paid.
LOL

Don't get me started on people who don't know how to handle money.....
In the real estate world, the NC REALTORS and NC Bar Association just revised forms clarifying that buyers and sellers might trade funds via EFT, Venmo, Zelle, PayPal, whatever.
Because kids aren't being taught how to write checks, and we don't have enough wire fraud already with EFT.
So, after years of bleak warnings to agents not to get into wire transfers, this appears to encourage agents to facilitate wire transfers and step back into the liability arena.
Meh. Not impressed.
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Old 06-18-2021, 07:19 PM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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Cash? It is King. Ask your server how they like to get paid.
LOL

Don't get me started on people who don't know how to handle money.....
In the real estate world, the NC REALTORS and NC Bar Association just revised forms clarifying that buyers and sellers might trade funds via EFT, Venmo, Zelle, PayPal, whatever.
Because kids aren't being taught how to write checks, and we don't have enough wire fraud already with EFT.
So, after years of bleak warnings to agents not to get into wire transfers, this appears to encourage agents to facilitate wire transfers and step back into the liability arena.
Meh. Not impressed.
Do y’all take Bitcoin or Ethereum?
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Old 06-18-2021, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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Do y’all take Bitcoin or Ethereum?
Lol.
I just asked a lender.
"Messy, messy."
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