So he is a player then..... isn't he. (couple, conversation, feelings)
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I noticed that - I posted very bluntly what SHE was trying to do, and it wasn't much better than what the guy was doing. Of course it was ignored. If the guy had posted I would have advised him to dump her.
I'm always skeptical on posts like this anyways, 20% chance it could be some sweaty middle aged bald guy getting his kicks posting in an internet forum and pretending to be a niave female.
I hate to say it because I could be wrong but the OP's posts just don't add up. I fear we are being trolled. Everytime she's confronted the story changes or at least deviates. No offense but how could a 37yr old adult female who has a child and has been married be this clueless? I dontbknow many devoutly religious ppl who get wasted and hook up with someone they barely know too. The OP also seems unwilling to accept any responsibility for her predicament as well. I fear someone is desprately seeking attention.
Honestly...you'd be shocked, that doesn't mean this may not be a troll thread, not all women are adept at spotting the losers, regardless of family background or number of past marriages. Many women have their heads in the clouds and overlook all else for good sexual chemistry even when smacked in the face with who they're dealing with.
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Originally Posted by lilred0005
I hate to say it because I could be wrong but the OP's posts just don't add up. I fear we are being trolled. Everytime she's confronted the story changes or at least deviates. No offense but how could a 37yr old adult female who has a child and has been married be this clueless? I dontbknow many devoutly religious ppl who get wasted and hook up with someone they barely know too. The OP also seems unwilling to accept any responsibility for her predicament as well. I fear someone is desprately seeking attention.
Honestly...you'd be shocked, that doesn't mean this may not be a troll thread, not all women are adept at spotting the losers, regardless of family background or number of past marriages. Many women have their heads in the clouds and overlook all else for good sexual chemistry even when smacked in the face with who they're dealing with.
Yup, I think you hit the nail on the head there, because that is EXACTLY my problem I think.
I go for the sexual chemistry, and then try to fit everything else around it.
I know. That is why I need to just start getting to know people VERY WELL, without the chemistry, and do everything backwards than what I have done in the past.
That is why I allways get sucked instantly into a long term relationship, that I then allways have to end.
I want the next one to be my life partner, so I will see a lot of people as FRIENDS only, and mabey in a year or 2 I will fall in love with one of them, but will not even GO there until then.
Kind of exciting taking myself back off the market.
I know. That is why I need to just start getting to know people VERY WELL, without the chemistry, and do everything backwards than what I have done in the past.
Chemistry goes beyond just sex, that doen't mean you have to join the convent. If your relationships move to fast, that could be a red flag and I'm sure there are exceptions. Theres an older thread here, "Relationships that move to fast" one of PasstheChocolates threads, give it a read.
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