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Old 08-17-2010, 11:20 AM
 
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Probably. When you are 60, 20-year-olds are not going to want to have sex with you. Your choices will probably be to enjoy someone your own age or go without.
When 60 year olds have sex, I don't think it has to do with attraction. I think they're just taking what they can get. Just because two 60 year olds settle for each other doesn't mean they find the other attractive.
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Old 08-17-2010, 11:21 AM
 
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I don't think Playboy or Playgirl could be a good way to measure beauty. Lots of those pictures are known to be NOT 100% natural. Just look at male models, bikini models, movies, idols, beauty pageants, professional cheerleaders, erotic male/female dancers, etc. What do they have in common? THEY ARE YOUNG. If the general public thought that women/men over 30 were good looking, we would see more of them in the professions I mentioned.
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Old 08-17-2010, 11:40 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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When 60 year olds have sex, I don't think it has to do with attraction. I think they're just taking what they can get. Just because two 60 year olds settle for each other doesn't mean they find the other attractive.
LOL. That's called projection. You are disgusted by older people, which probably stems from a very normal fear of aging, and so you believe that everyone else must feel the same way--including the older people.

Psychological projection - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

All I can say is: get back to us in, oh, 20 or 30 years. And have fun with your magazines in the meantime.
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Old 08-17-2010, 11:47 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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When 60 year olds have sex, I don't think it has to do with attraction. I think they're just taking what they can get.
Well, the same can be said for pimply-faced teenagers who look at Playboy magazines to whack off while the shower's running!
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Old 08-17-2010, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Metro DC area
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Well, the same can be said for pimply-faced teenagers who look at Playboy magazines to whack off while the shower's running!
Hilarious....sorry I LOL at this...coworkers probably think I'm nuts!
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Old 08-17-2010, 01:45 PM
 
Location: Wyoming
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Call me crazy, but the thought of old person sex is just disturbing to me. Maybe it's because I'm young.
"Old person sex" is disturbing to me too, but to me old person sex means 80-year-old sex.

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When 60 year olds have sex, I don't think it has to do with attraction. I think they're just taking what they can get. Just because two 60 year olds settle for each other doesn't mean they find the other attractive.
Here's where you're all wrong. I'm 64. (gasp!) To me, some 60-year-old women are very attractive. I wouldn't be interested in a 19-year-old any more than you'd be interested in a 10-year-old. That would be freaky! Legal or not, I'd feel like a pervert. Now 40 would be a different story.
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Old 08-17-2010, 02:40 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Amazingly, people over 60 still have sex. Clearly they attract somebody. I don't consider Playboy to be the measuring stick for attractiveness, anymore than I look to porn movies, and it's not like you or 99% of the population bang those girls anyway.
Repability-100%! Sorry I'm out.
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Old 08-17-2010, 02:45 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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When 60 year olds have sex, I don't think it has to do with attraction. I think they're just taking what they can get. Just because two 60 year olds settle for each other doesn't mean they find the other attractive.
LMAO I say you put this in a time vault and reread it when you're 60. Hell, read it when you're in your 40s. Sometimes wisdom comes with age. I have hope for you.
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Old 08-17-2010, 04:01 PM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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"Old person sex" is disturbing to me too, but to me old person sex means 80-year-old sex.



Here's where you're all wrong. I'm 64. (gasp!) To me, some 60-year-old women are very attractive. I wouldn't be interested in a 19-year-old any more than you'd be interested in a 10-year-old. That would be freaky! Legal or not, I'd feel like a pervert. Now 40 would be a different story.
I agree. I strongly believe that I will still be attracted to my husband whe we are 64. I will still need him, I will still feed him, and I will still %@$ him, lol...and not because he is the best I can get but because I am attracted to him!
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Old 08-17-2010, 04:11 PM
 
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I think over 40 is old, but some people can be attractive past 40. But I think by 60, no matter how attractive you once were, you're not going to be attractive anymore. You're just too old. That's not to say people over 60 are bad people, it just means I don't think they have any chance of being attractive. When was the last time you saw a 60 year old pose for Playboy?

The cutoff for when your looks go downhill is different for everyone, like I said on another thread.
Sonny, you have a lot to learn. Hopefully when you mature, you will make better sense than you do now. Idea's can be hatched in the mind when you have so much time on your hands you have nothing constructive to do. I think old men do think young women are atractive, hell, they are. They think that only about the young women who actually are attractive young women. Not all young women are attractive. Not all old men want to get involved with a young woman. Many young people, people just like yourself, an old person can talk to for an hour and learn everything that young person knows. In other words, young people are not always that interesting to talk to, if you're an older person, because they have no 'life experiences', and you're just not interesting. My post doesn't make any more sense than your post...maybe we're both loosin' it.
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