Do overweight women feel self conscious during sex or forplay? (hubby, perfect)

[FelixTheCat]

I want to get the perspective of chubby or overweight (20-30 lbs) during make outs or sex with someone new? I'm not trying to imply that fit people don't ever feel self conscious of their bodies, just wondering it it is usually an issue for women who are a few extra pounds or more overweight. What if the other person is chubby too or what if they are fit and you are not?

[stepka]

Yes.

[lionking]

oh yeah.


And a guy who likes her would do well to show her how he thinks she is hot and how her fretting over it is not worth it.


And if you do see something that isn't perfect to you.......lie....and focus on the good points.

[Chowhound]

Not when they are with me........

[imsh0t]

im sure they do. everyone does though.

[*VaNiLlaGoRrilLa*]

Originally Posted by victorhe33

im sure they do. everyone does though.

Exactly. I weigh 110 and I still don't like certain bits of me being felt or seen.

[TheBeagleLady]

I really don't feel self conscious.

[edub]

They shouldn't if the weight is in their boobs!

[paganmama80]

Originally Posted by edub

They shouldn't if the weight is in their boobs!

lol

[SD4020]

Originally Posted by dogwalker425

I really don't feel self conscious.

It is best that way.