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So I went to the gym today and HE WASN'T THERE!!! I took my time too. Ran a lot farther than I usually do and worked with weights and the machines. I took my time after the workout in the locker room getting showered and beautified only to realize that he was no where to be found. Oh well... there is always tomorrow!
So I went to the gym today and HE WASN'T THERE!!! I took my time too. Ran a lot farther than I usually do and worked with weights and the machines. I took my time after the workout in the locker room getting showered and beautified only to realize that he was no where to be found. Oh well... there is always tomorrow!
To be continued...
Don't you HATE it when that happens?
If it makes you feel any better, happens to me a lot >.>
Really? Your plan to ask a women out never pans out? That sucks! At least this is my first time... I'd never want to be a man. It's stressful!!!
See how stressful it is to think about how to ask a guy out? A lot is expected from men when it comes to these things so you're right when you say you would never want to go through the things a guy has to do through when it comes to dating.
But if you are still thinking of going against what society expects from both genders then more power to you . Have you thought where you will take him out? Keep us posted .
Hi CRNA1. I hope this all works out for you. I know it sure isn't easy. If you know his name, say "HI _____" to him as you walk by. Also, asking him straight out if he would like to go for coffee or something is great in my book.
I'd never have an issue with the lady making the first move. Good luck.
Oh my gosh! So many encouraging words from the men. I guess I have to ask him out now! I have to be honest because it is my new year's resolution to be completely transparent and honest in all aspects of my life. I chickened out today. I really wanted to speak to him but there were too many people around. I feel like everyone is watching my every move! All in my head I know. I have to hand it to the men: it sucks to be male. Not only do you have to do the asking, you have to pay for the date too!! If he says yes, I am paying for it. I am sure it would be a welcome change.
Hi CRNA1. I hope this all works out for you. I know it sure isn't easy. If you know his name, say "HI _____" to him as you walk by. Also, asking him straight out if he would like to go for coffee or something is great in my book.
I'd never have an issue with the lady making the first move. Good luck.
Thanks. It is so good to hear. Let's hope he doesn't turn me down.
Oh my gosh! So many encouraging words from the men. I guess I have to ask him out now! I have to be honest because it is my new year's resolution to be completely transparent and honest in all aspects of my life. I chickened out today. I really wanted to speak to him but there were too many people around. I feel like everyone is watching my every move! All in my head I know. I have to hand it to the men: it sucks to be male. Not only do you have to do the asking, you have to pay for the date too!! If he says yes, I am paying for it. I am sure it would be a welcome change.
Paying for it isn't the problem, it's asking in the first place. See, the problem with asking with anyone else around but the person you desire is that you run the risk of putting them on the spot and/or really embarassing them.. but no risk, no reward, right?
this basically happened to me at work this summer. I worked in a restaurant situated on a farm, and there was this REALLY CUTE girl working in the greenhouse and orchard (so workplace drama wouldn't have been much of an issue, and even then we had different schedules) Everyone was giving me crap for "being too chicken" but it can get kinda hard, esp. if you picture the person to be "out of your league" as I did.
Keep trying!
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A lot is expected from men when it comes to these things so you're right when you say you would never want to go through the things a guy has to do through when it comes to dating. 
. Have you thought where you will take him out? Keep us posted 
.
I really wanted to speak to him but there were too many people around. I feel like everyone is watching my every move! All in my head I know. I have to hand it to the men: it sucks to be male. Not only do you have to do the asking, you have to pay for the date too!! If he says yes, I am paying for it. I am sure it would be a welcome change.
