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Be blunt. Men are horrible at reading signals. Just say, "I was wondering if we could meet up for coffee sometime?" or "I was wondering if you'd like to go out for a drink sometime?" etc. etc. He should get the message.
I was in the gym, this woman comes up to me, rips my clothes off, rips her clothes off and she says she wants to have hot sex with me right there.
I have to hand it to the men: it sucks to be male. Not only do you have to do the asking, you have to pay for the date too!! If he says yes, I am paying for it. I am sure it would be a welcome change.
You’re right. It’s easier for you, as a woman, to just sit back and let the man take care of it all (your dinner, wine, entertainment, expenses, etc.) but there’s also something in you that is somehow pushing you to just go for it. You like him! Why not? Go get him tiger!
I would like to ask a guy out I don't really know but whom I have seen at the gym. I have never asked a man out! Does an assertive woman scare men? Does it mean I pay for the date? Rejection is hard to take... for anyone! What do I say? How can I tell if he is single?
I was gonna avoid this thread since I never asked a man out. But then I realized that I have been doing it passive aggressively all these years. Any guy I had my eye on I was able to attract their attention by passively making myself known to them (but indirectly). Such as putting myself in their path, flaunting the goods while they were around (but pretending not to notice them whatsoever, directing my attention at others). I never did this consciously though. And by the time I had attracted the guy, and he is tricked into thinking that he is the one who likes me and is asking me out of his own free will, most of the time I would not follow through with it. Why? Cuz I'm a pre-dator, not a dater.
Now that I've grown up I'm no longer into these lame games. But had I been smarter and not such a priss/wuss I would have made the most of my skill. Instead I spent most of my adult life not dating and being asexual. I really regret it.
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I really wanted to speak to him but there were too many people around. I feel like everyone is watching my every move!
