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If you saw the husband or wife of a friend (not a best buddy, but someone in your social group ) on a dating site promoting that they were single and looking, what would you do?
Let's assume you have only met the boss's partner at a couple of formal work functions and have never interacted with them socially.
Last edited by Lost&Found; 01-11-2011 at 10:39 PM..
I would take them aside and tell them, "I'm not here to judge you, but I came across your dating pofile on a 'whatever' dating site. I just wanted to give you a heads up because if I found it - others may also and I know you're married.' After that - then it's none of your business.
Location: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia, The World!
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Originally Posted by Thursday007
I would take them aside and tell them, "I'm not here to judge you, but I came across your dating pofile on a 'whatever' dating site. I just wanted to give you a heads up because if I found it - others may also and I know you're married.' After that - then it's none of your business.
I just added a part to the original question which explains that the boss's partner is for all intents and purposes a stranger to you, but you sound brave.
would anyone send an anonymous note to the spouse? I'd like to think I would because I would want to know if it were me...but what I wouldn't do is protect the so-called cheater by giving them a head's up that you saw them on the website....if they have some sort of "agreement" where it is acceptable in their marrage/partnership, then it will be just fine that you send the note.
If you saw the husband or wife of a friend (not a best buddy, but someone in your social group ) on a dating site promoting that they were single and looking, what would you do?
Let's assume you have only met the boss's partner at a couple of formal work functions and have never interacted with them socially.
Since the person is practically a stranger to you then it doesn't impact you one way or the other. Leave it to someone else who is a friend/relative to discover. No need to get into the middle of a stranger's business.
Nada! I would never stick my nose into someone else's business like that.
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