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I'm sure - just like there are women who are put off with very sexually confident men who aren't afraid to tell a woman exactly what he wants and how it must be done. Not all women want men who have laid almost every woman in town, and so it stands to reason that not all men want women who are ultra-experienced.
actualy, you win a trophy for the wrongest post on cd forums ever. thats saying alot!
Women are put off by men who arent affraid to tell a woman exactly what they want? Not all women want sexualy experienced men? IN WHAT FANTASY WORLD DO YOU LIVE IN?
I use to have a married female friend and she said her husband wouldn't 'let' her own a vibrator or other sex toys. That's how jealous he was, of a plastic penis toy.
i have no issues with it. i would rather have a women that knows her wants and needs then one i have to poke and prod them out of them.
being a little older i really dont have the patients to play teacher to girls that are still unsure of themselves. im completly fine leaving that behind in my 20's where it was ok to play big bad macho man while the girls play little miss innocence.
These guys who are intimidated sound boring. I wouldn't get far enough with them to actually sleep with them. I have a fairly short list of guys I've slept with, but I kind of take an empirical/research approach to it. I know what I like, because I've read a lot of books about sex and then tested out what I've read. I'm very knowledgeable despite not having a long list of lovers, and trust me, I've never gotten any complaints about what I know. The guy who I was with AFTER my rather forgettable "first" time, to this day only dates "chicks who read."
OP, you need to start hanging out with a better class of guys. I can't imagine any of my platonic male friends or any of my former bfs being turned off by a woman who knew what she wanted in bed. But given that we're all over 30 these days, I can't imagine them bothering with a woman who DIDN'T know what she wanted.
I use to have a married female friend and she said her husband wouldn't 'let' her own a vibrator or other sex toys. That's how jealous he was, of a plastic penis toy.
And yet a lot of women don't allow their men to/get hurt feelings when they catch their men watching porn. Most people see nothing wrong with that and emphasize with the woman.
If a man were to complain about his wife getting mad over it he's selfish and uncaring; yet he's also an insecure control freak if he has a problem with her having a vibrator.
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The fact that she allows him to dictate what kind of products she can have or not have is laughable.
Women do it all the time and if the man doesn't cave then he's a selfish jerk. Check out sites like ebay motors, if i had a dime for every time I read "wife says it has to go" in the description I'd be richer than Bill Gates.
Unfortunately Sexual confidence and being a good Lover aren't correlated.
I know a very confident woman who had decided she could learn no more, and always resorted to one stye and it was very repetive...again and again and again
My friend is 33, but my bf who turns 46 this year has the same attitude! Both older men (older than me anyway) who should know better and have more of an open mind by now.
This is strange. What, these guys don't enjoy sex? Most men love women who are uninhibited and have fun. Most guys think they've died and gone to heaven with a woman like that! But things like that should be kept private, maybe that's what turned your friend off. I wouldn't worry about it.
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