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Delusions running rampant on this thread! I think we should start a drinking game where we all take a drink every time an OP says he/she is X yrs old but looks Y years [where "Y" = "X"-(10-20yrs)]. I'm sure some of us would ultimately need to get on the liver transplant list by the time it's all said and done
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This is not true. Most old guys just have an inflated sense of their attractiveness. The old man young woman thing is cultural. Most of you guys over 45 can't even go two rounds in one night and a lot of you over 55+ needs days to recuperate or can't do anything without that little blue pill. If men are biologically superior than why do your penises seem to malfunction half way thru life and why do you guys die sooner than us ladies?
The problem with a lot of women is their refusal to think outside the box when it comes to dating. I know plenty of older women who could date but won't because they are fixated on the man being a certain age...height...having a certain income etc. 3.5 billion men on the planet and you can't find even one? It's not them it's definitely you.
Wow! Somebody got offended. All the guy said was that generally, women tend to age faster than men, and you attack him with such venom. Talking about blue pills and lack of sexual ability and being delusional --- why so nasty?
yeah its great now but there's a small window where age gap relationships actually work. It'll get old in a few years. I say that as a girl whose been there. And not every younger guy is a baby or plays video games...generalizations galore
But aren't you generalizing by saying those types of relationships will eventually get old and that there is only a small window of time where those relationships work?
My philosophy is truly that age is nothing but a number, and also the quote that goes "age is mind over matter, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter."
What this means is that after a certain age (say 30) you are an adult; and it is more about matching energy and interests. I am married, in my 60s, but yes I am a woman who takes care of herself and has always had a lot of energy and a youthful attitude. If I were to become single, I would most likely be wanting men about half my age; because most that are my age (outside my husband) would not be able to keep up with me on any level. This is speaking in general terms of course. Also, I don't care what men look like -tall or short, hair color etc - what is important to me are personality, good sense of humour and attentive to my needs (to name a few)
Everyone is different and we have our preferences. Thank goodness, because there can be someone for everyone!
once you accept the concept that all relationships are transitory, meaning only lasts as long as it's good for both partners, age starts becoming irrelevant and you look at your potential experience with the person, and not some linear "where is this going" mindset. enjoy the trip and stop focusing on your ideal destination, cuz many ppl burn precious time wanting something more instead of appreciating what they have. as the old rolling stones' song said, you can't always get what you want but if you try sometimes you get what you need.
If men are that delusional, the only viable solution is to lie about your age.
who cares anyway? is not like they re gonna ask for your ID
I agree. Its time for me to lie because the women I want to date (30-40) would think I was 35 if they met me out anyway. I'm 46. So sick of older women messaging me. I'm sure women feel that way about older men too, which is why I do need to lie. So out of character for me, but I'm considering it.
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