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Old 07-23-2011, 11:14 AM
 
Location: Not far from Fairbanks, AK
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How does a girl tell a guy she just wants sex, without sounding trashy or.....stereotypically unlady like? Girls are just like guys and have curiousities without wanting unnecessary drama. What is a polite way to say it. You cant necessarily say ..."hi, I want to see you later and maybe we can touch, hehe"...if you are in an appropriate setting. What would be acceptable to men to still keep the sexual experience natural and untainted?
Anna,

What others have said. But please allow me to clarify something for you: girls Are NOT just like guys, specially relating to sex.
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Old 07-23-2011, 11:20 AM
 
Location: bold new city of the south
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Tell him that for him, there is no charge.
Heh, subtle, thank you Ms Subliminal..

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six pack of beer, bbq and be nekkid...in that order

if you are a chickopatamus...paperbag, then case of beer, bbq and be nekkid ...in that order
Silver medal.

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Anna,

What others have said. But please allow me to clarify something for you: girls Are NOT just like guys, specially relating to sex.
And I thank Him, for that.
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Old 07-23-2011, 11:23 AM
 
Location: bold new city of the south
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How does a girl tell a guy she just wants sex, without sounding trashy or.....stereotypically unlady like? Girls are just like guys and have curiousities without wanting unnecessary drama. What is a polite way to say it. You cant necessarily say ..."hi, I want to see you later and maybe we can touch, hehe"...if you are in an appropriate setting. What would be acceptable to men to still keep the sexual experience natural and untainted?

Ah, Anna, your Direct Messages are not open.
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Old 07-23-2011, 11:50 AM
 
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I'm not sure how well this would work on an "unfamiliar" man, but my husband is easy.

I get close to him, untuck his shirt, run my hands over his skin and give a little kiss....

Then I start undoing his belt and....well, use your imagination.

He's programmed now though, as soon as my hands are on his waist to get his shirt up...ummm, other things go up too
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Old 07-23-2011, 12:14 PM
 
Location: Pa
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That's a new one, but that plays around the direct part a bit.
Yep or a simple code words or rubbing of the thigh.
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Old 07-23-2011, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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I'm not sure how well this would work on an "unfamiliar" man, but my husband is easy.

I get close to him, untuck his shirt, run my hands over his skin and give a little kiss....

Then I start undoing his belt and....well, use your imagination.

He's programmed now though, as soon as my hands are on his waist to get his shirt up...ummm, other things go up too

You little sex kitten...
hahahaha
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Old 07-23-2011, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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I can't believe no guy has offered it, but this man-phrase should work for a woman too:

"I'm really into you, but just so you know, I'm not ready to settle down for anything committed right now"
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Old 07-23-2011, 04:51 PM
 
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Ask him if he believes in miracles.
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Old 07-23-2011, 05:05 PM
 
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How does a girl tell a guy she just wants sex, without sounding trashy or.....stereotypically unlady like? Girls are just like guys and have curiousities without wanting unnecessary drama. What is a polite way to say it. You cant necessarily say ..."hi, I want to see you later and maybe we can touch, hehe"...if you are in an appropriate setting. What would be acceptable to men to still keep the sexual experience natural and untainted?
"I just want sex"

"I'd like to keep it casual"

"Are you going to hit this or what?"

Seriously, if you're just looking for sex, keep it simple. Who cares if he thinks you're unladylike?
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Old 07-23-2011, 06:26 PM
 
Location: Cardboard box
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She tells me "Hurry up, I got another appointment in 25 minutes"
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