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Old 10-27-2011, 09:27 AM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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I mean, I still am. Should I not date for the next 14 months then
My mistake. I assumed it was an ASAP plan.
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Old 10-27-2011, 09:54 AM
 
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Forgot to add you must be at least 5'10
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Old 10-28-2011, 09:03 AM
 
Location: Infernuan
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Hafta agree with the detractors here. A waste. Pure and simple. ESPECIALLY when it comes to height. As JBT1980 noted, men must be of a certain height before they are even allowed entrance. As a 5'5" male, no dice. My experience with O.D. can be put thusly: "Sorry, thanks for playing, drive thru, don't come back."
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Old 10-28-2011, 09:07 AM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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Hafta agree with the detractors here. A waste. Pure and simple. ESPECIALLY when it comes to height. As JBT1980 noted, men must be of a certain height before they are even allowed entrance. As a 5'5" male, no dice. My experience with O.D. can be put thusly: "Sorry, thanks for playing, drive thru, don't come back."
DC Area is rough too bro. I can sympathize. Just be proud of who you are regardless of height. There's a lady out there for you.
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Old 10-28-2011, 01:38 PM
 
Location: Santa Ana
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i refuse to pay for online dating, except for Plentyoffish because that does not even cost a penny
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Old 10-28-2011, 02:53 PM
 
Location: Biltmore area of Phoenix
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Online dating is bad mainly for one reason: You form your first opinions and impressions of the person through a 96-pixel-per-inch photo and some words written to be as inoffensive as possible, and the rest of the relationship never really moves beyond that initial foundation.

If you meet someone in the flesh you get a 3D, full-motion image. There are things that might look bad in photos that are total non-issues when you see a person's confidence, gestures, smile, presence in person. You also get to interact with them spontaneously. They can't plan out responses like they can through email or chat.

So -- following one disastrous marriage that started out through an online dating service---I don't do it anymore. I finally found I am comfortable just starting up conversations with people in the flesh. I also am introduced through friends of friends and such. Whatever happened to that?
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Old 10-28-2011, 02:57 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I think you are very proud of your accomplishment.

Congratulations.
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Old 10-28-2011, 05:31 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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I also am introduced through friends of friends and such. Whatever happened to that?
Whenever that has happened to me, the potential date always suddenly has a boyfriend my friend didn't know about.
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Old 10-29-2011, 04:50 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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i refuse to pay for online dating, except for Plentyoffish because that does not even cost a penny
I would actually consider a pay service before going back to OKC. I figure most people are gonna be taking it a little more seriously and looking for more serious relationships if they're forking over money every month.
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Old 10-29-2011, 08:26 PM
 
Location: Washington County, ME
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weren't you complaining about online datng a few months back?
I dont know if you meant ME, or the OP

I've had good and bad experiences with it. Mostly good. But i didnt have good experiences on the POF site.
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