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Old 11-07-2013, 08:30 PM
 
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Its agreed amongst women that most guys (95%+) who message you on OKCupid/POF are boring, dull, ugly, no career, no outlook, no personality etc

Correct?

Ok let's agree for argument's sake.


So then why do you still go online and make a profile and then complain about getting hit on by undesirable guys?


Seems pretty counter intuitive...


I do pretty horribly at bars/nightclubs. Thus, I stopped trying to get with girls at nightclubs. If I do go, it would be with friends and I would never complain about lack of attention because I have already accepted the odds.
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Old 11-07-2013, 08:38 PM
 
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umm, because that would be logical....
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Old 11-07-2013, 08:48 PM
 
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It's not true. There are gorgeous men online too. Some are antisocial or shy.In the past I found one who lives close to me. Never would of even met him if it wasn't for online.
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Old 11-07-2013, 08:56 PM
 
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Desperation primarily.
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Old 11-07-2013, 08:58 PM
 
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It's not true. There are gorgeous men online too. Some are antisocial or shy.In the past I found one who lives close to me. Never would of even met him if it wasn't for online.
Yes but many women complain about lack of decent guys and most who message them are unattractive.

So if the odds online are so terrible for those women, why are they still on POF/okcupid etc?
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Old 11-07-2013, 08:59 PM
 
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I like the old school way of meet woman face to face.
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Old 11-07-2013, 08:59 PM
 
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I've met some pretty desirable men online to my surprise. I just didn't mean every guy that messaged me. Most of the time you can figure out the type of chemistry there will be before you even meet.
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Old 11-07-2013, 09:01 PM
 
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easy ego boost
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Old 11-07-2013, 09:05 PM
 
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Its agreed amongst women that most guys (95%+) who message you on OKCupid/POF are boring, dull, ugly, no career, no outlook, no personality etc

Correct?

Ok let's agree for argument's sake.


So then why do you still go online and make a profile and then complain about getting hit on by undesirable guys?


Seems pretty counter intuitive...


I do pretty horribly at bars/nightclubs. Thus, I stopped trying to get with girls at nightclubs. If I do go, it would be with friends and I would never complain about lack of attention because I have already accepted the odds.
Reference the recent thread about 80% of men being found undesirable by women. No matter what, unless they went to a male model dating event (if they have such a thing) women are likely to find a large percentage of men unattractive at first glance, and with online dating they can afford to be picky and not give unattractive men to them a chance.
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Old 11-07-2013, 09:07 PM
 
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Yes but many women complain about lack of decent guys and most who message them are unattractive.

So if the odds online are so terrible for those women, why are they still on POF/okcupid etc?
If you want to win the lotto you have to play. If you don't try you will never know.
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