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Old 11-09-2011, 01:49 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Had a party at my place last night and some random dude came over, friend of friend. So I noticed his class ring and he clearly went to VT and I found out we literally had everything in common. We talked for like 2 or 3 hours and hung out the entire time, totally platonic by the way (I know I've posted some "bicurous" threads here so just know it's 100% platonic). So the party ends and it's like an awkward "nice meeting you, I want to give you my number but don't want to come off as weird so hopefully I bump into you again."

I'm totally in need of some bro-time but can't get over the concept that I might be perceived as weird.
If you want to be lonely or unfulfilled because you fear what others might think, have at it.
It's your choice.
You make social norms.
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Old 11-09-2011, 03:19 PM
 
Location: Heartland Florida
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What about a guy who has never had sex, is he straight automatically, or is he gay? Or bi? Or asexual?
If he has failed to be aroused, he remains asexual. That is how I am, 99% asexual.
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Old 11-10-2011, 12:55 AM
 
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just saying. i don't recall society making it "gay" for men to befriend other men. this is the first time i'm hearing this. what it sounds like is you're projecting your insecurities onto others.
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Old 11-12-2011, 08:34 AM
 
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Had a party at my place last night and some random dude came over, friend of friend. So I noticed his class ring and he clearly went to VT and I found out we literally had everything in common. We talked for like 2 or 3 hours and hung out the entire time, totally platonic by the way (I know I've posted some "bicurous" threads here so just know it's 100% platonic). So the party ends and it's like an awkward "nice meeting you, I want to give you my number but don't want to come off as weird so hopefully I bump into you again."

I'm totally in need of some bro-time but can't get over the concept that I might be perceived as weird.
Society can not tell YOU who to be friends with....Society does NOT make it gay for you to have same sex friends...you do that...maybe you should quit worrying about what others think.....live your life without putting stumbling blocks in front of you based on how you feel your actions will be perceived by others...Life is good...enjoy...and be friends with whom ever you want...be they male or female.
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Old 11-12-2011, 08:38 AM
 
Location: southern california
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if any attempt whatsoever to spend time with other men meets with quick accusations,
this is a control game and nothing else.
u dont see it just with other men, also with your mother,
anything that is a threat to women, will meet with ridicule pdq.
what guy firends and your mother have in common is they watch your back, the woman in your life does not like that. there is a reason.
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Old 11-13-2011, 08:25 AM
 
Location: Heartland Florida
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if any attempt whatsoever to spend time with other men meets with quick accusations,
this is a control game and nothing else.
u dont see it just with other men, also with your mother,
anything that is a threat to women, will meet with ridicule pdq.
what guy firends and your mother have in common is they watch your back, the woman in your life does not like that. there is a reason.
I have always been amazed how some women want to control their husbands like a slave. The bad thing is that many men seem to enjoy it!
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