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I just can't imagine two shy people communicating, especially enough to actually get to know eachother, and start a relationship.
Oh yes Beilua Rose...of course they can....in fact the shyness might be what attracts them to each other,,,it might just take a little longer....but then...anything worth having takes time.
If someone is introverted, they would best compliment someone that's extroverted and vice versa.
Not everybody is like that. I'm not shy, either, but extroverts, particularly the loud type, annoy me and give me a headache. There's no way for me to keep one around on a regular basis.
Possible, but not likely. There needs to be balanced. If someone is introverted, they would best compliment someone that's extroverted and vice versa. I'm introverted(though not shy) and do best with those that are extroverted.
I think introverts mesh best with other introverts. It's just better long term when 2 people understand each other.
I'm not shy, but am an introvert. Of course reserved people can have good relationships, probably better than attention ***** extroverts. I actually talked a decent amount with my last G/F b/c I was actually interested in what she said and what she was about. With most people, I'm reserved 'cos I find them boring and too banal.
As a shy person myself, I do think it's possible. But, I am only shy until I get to know a person...once I get to know someone and feel comfortable with them, I can be a total goofball. It's just the initial "getting to know you" phase that is difficult for me (whether is a guy I'm interested in, or even a classmate - guy or girl - that I'd like to be friends with). I really do think once you get to know someone, you won't be shy.... hence, I think it's completely possible!
When i worked in a restaurant, we had a couple who always came in for two soups, they always read two newspapers.
Have to admit, im an introvert but i like that my husband is an extrovert. I can easily go out and talk to new people and am really chatty when i get going, but I prefer going out with him because hes the life of the party which means i dont have to make as much effort lol, its nice.
It's possible, and it definitely happens in the same way that you want to have a relationship with anyone else.
By most standards, I am a total introvert. I'm reserved when I first meet people, but not so once you get to know me. My husband is "quiet" even in the presence of his closest friends and family. When I first met him, I was surprised to meet someone even more introverted and quieter than me! Our first date wouldn't have gone on at all if no one talked. But because that was what we were there for, in an effort to get to know each other, I assumed the role of the "extrovert" by talking, asking questions, and sharing bits and pieces about me. Some people just don't naturally blab about themselves - not out of malice or deceit - you merely have to ask what you want to know to get an answer. It just took longer for some introverts, like my husband, to feel comfortable around others, so patience and the ability to make the other person comfortable are key. Obviously it paid off. So yes, a relationship with an introvert can happen if you know what you're getting into and are willing to work to build one together.
I really...really...................really hope so.. :/
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But because that was what we were there for, in an effort to get to know each other, I assumed the role of the "extrovert" by talking, asking questions, and sharing bits and pieces about me. Some people just don't naturally blab about themselves - not out of malice or deceit - you merely have to ask what you want to know to get an answer. It just took longer for some introverts, like my husband, to feel comfortable around others, so patience and the ability to make the other person comfortable are key. Obviously it paid off. 
