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Fast for me. If it doesn't happen quickly it's not going to happen at all. Come to think of it, all my girlfriends were first date hits. No wait, there was one that I became friends with on first meeting in college. We hung out together until her bf dumped her and then she fell into my arms. I think she had a thing for me all along.
Well that is if another man likes the same woman as you do
Kinda depends on her liking him as well, doesn't it?
To answer the question, I think it's a stupid question. Or, at least an immature or ignorant one.
Each relationship takes on its own form. Things develop at their own rate depending on the people involved and the environment at that time. I don't put any artificial constraints or accelerators on a relationship.
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"Seal" what deal? Ask for a committed monogamous relationship? Is that what you mean?
If that, slow. I take commitment seriously. I want to know them and know we're on the same page and wanting the same things and there is a good chance of us making it work before entering into a committed relationship.
I'm not worried about other guys. No reason to be. I can't control what other people do, and entering into relationships isn't a competition or a race. If she meets someone she thinks is better for her, power to her.
I say it all depends. You have to evaluate on each situation. Some girl might prefer both slow and fast, so is hard to say without being in the situation.
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