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Old 01-17-2012, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I guess I"m determined to find my "other half" hehehe
Now IS the time - while you have energy and some illusions left.
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Old 01-17-2012, 09:29 PM
 
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Now IS the time - while you have energy and some illusions left.
ya, I'm sort of in panic mode because all the good ones are getting snatched up real fast at this age . hopefully there is someone left who is half way good looking.
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Old 01-17-2012, 09:42 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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I know you've explained it before, but why are you so concerned with finding yourself a decent man right now? I mean, I can understand why you would, it's always nice to have a companion and whatnot, but most people in our age group are living some sort of ridiculously hedonistic lifestyle that won't make them consider kids until their mid-thirties...

Just because a good guy gets snatched up in his mid-twenties doesn't mean they're all gone, ya know.
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Old 01-17-2012, 09:50 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Just because a good guy gets snatched up in his mid-twenties
Well, chances are he will be available again before 35 max, but as a package deal with joint custody and child support... As we talked before, a clean slate is a whole lot better!
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Old 01-17-2012, 09:56 PM
 
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I know you've explained it before, but why are you so concerned with finding yourself a decent man right now? I mean, I can understand why you would, it's always nice to have a companion and whatnot, but most people in our age group are living some sort of ridiculously hedonistic lifestyle that won't make them consider kids until their mid-thirties...

Just because a good guy gets snatched up in his mid-twenties doesn't mean they're all gone, ya know.
its not having kids I'm concerned about..I could care less about that right now, lol. what's a hedonistic lifestyle? I just want someone to share things with. I don't have things like a big family and friends all around me like everyone else does so I guess that's why I want it more than others do. Another one of my friends just got engaged...so there ya go, less friends every day. Back when I had a ton of friends around to do things with, I dont' remember caring if I had anyone or not. I try to make new friends too and they're all married and caught up in that too. I'm hoping I can do my internship in Phx next year..it'll be my ticket out of here!

and yes, they're all snatched up. I see good looking, good men every single day..that are taken!! . I'm gonna start asking if they have a single friend/brother/cousin they can send my way..that lives here, lol.
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Old 01-17-2012, 09:57 PM
 
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Well, chances are he will be available again before 35 max, but as a package deal with joint custody and child support... As we talked before, a clean slate is a whole lot better!
exactly...I don't want the attractive, nice man when he's bitter with 3 kids that aren't mine .
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Old 01-17-2012, 09:59 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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its not having kids I'm concerned about..I could care less about that right now, lol. what's a hedonistic lifestyle? I just want someone to share things with. I don't have things like a big family and friends all around me like everyone else does so I guess that's why I want it more than others do. Another one of my friends just got engaged...so there ya go, less friends every day. Back when I had a ton of friends around to do things with, I dont' remember caring if I had anyone or not. I try to make new friends too and they're all married and caught up in that too. I'm hoping I can do my internship in Phx next year..it'll be my ticket out of here!

and yes, they're all snatched up. I see good looking, good men every single day..that are taken!! . I'm gonna start asking if they have a single friend/brother/cousin they can send my way..that lives here, lol.
Took the words out of my mouth! Well, except replace men with women
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Old 01-17-2012, 10:05 PM
 
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Took the words out of my mouth! Well, except replace men with women
glad someone gets it!
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Old 01-17-2012, 10:06 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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glad someone gets it!
I'm a bit older than you though. So you've got a few more years before you completely run out of single friends
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Old 01-17-2012, 10:16 PM
 
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I'm a bit older than you though. So you've got a few more years before you completely run out of single friends
I know but in my town, you start to feel it at 23 and I'm almost 26 now. People get married REALLY young here! I only have one single friend left so I would say that's a pretty significant low, lol. the other single friend I have lives in LA.
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