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If he really did sleep with someone then he was good with the current arrangement with the OP.
If he did not sleep with anyone then this little verbal test was for some
other purpose.
Hes not good with the current arrangement whether he actually slept with someone else and felt the need to tell her,or tested by lying saying he slept with someone else.
He baited her either way, and found out hes still an fwb....lol
I am confused... I 've met this guy about a month ago, we have being hanging out, we have great chemistry and get alone well.
Last weekend he went on a trip for work, and got back last night, after we had some fun he tells me he met someone on this trip and slept with her.
I was like "great, was she hot?" he looked at me angry and said "you don't give a flying ****, I just told you I slept with someone else!"
from the beginning we stated we wanted no commitmment, no strings, just a fwb relationship. We BOTH agreed to this, we have talked about it several times through out the month, we never said we would be exclusive.
So I asked: "you are mad at me because I am not jealous?" he didn't answer. Needless to say the fun was over
I am confused... I 've met this guy about a month ago, we have being hanging out, we have great chemistry and get alone well.
Last weekend he went on a trip for work, and got back last night, after we had some fun he tells me he met someone on this trip and slept with her.
I was like "great, was she hot?" he looked at me angry and said "you don't give a flying ****, I just told you I slept with someone else!"
from the beginning we stated we wanted no commitmment, no strings, just a fwb relationship. We BOTH agreed to this, we have talked about it several times through out the month, we never said we would be exclusive.
So I asked: "you are mad at me because I am not jealous?" he didn't answer. Needless to say the fun was over
I do not understand, what do you guys think?
My best guess - he didn't really sleep with someone else.
He's fallen for you and wanted to gauge your level of interest in him by how you reacted to his "news".
He got upset because he was hoping you had fallen for him too and would care that he'd slept with someone else.
Your reaction was confirmation to him that you don't care and he's hurt.
I am confused... I 've met this guy about a month ago, we have being hanging out, we have great chemistry and get alone well.
Last weekend he went on a trip for work, and got back last night, after we had some fun he tells me he met someone on this trip and slept with her.
I was like "great, was she hot?" he looked at me angry and said "you don't give a flying ****, I just told you I slept with someone else!"
from the beginning we stated we wanted no commitmment, no strings, just a fwb relationship. We BOTH agreed to this, we have talked about it several times through out the month, we never said we would be exclusive.
So I asked: "you are mad at me because I am not jealous?" he didn't answer. Needless to say the fun was over
I do not understand, what do you guys think?
He was playing his "ace" to get you to declare your love, and that you could never share him...bla bla bla. He lost this hand. So, find a new fwb if that is what you want. This one folded.
Most people here think he made this confession because he wants MORE with the OP? How would telling her he slept with someone else help that cause?
My first thought was that he told you because he wants out, and his plan backfired when you weren't pissed off He even slept with you BEFORE he told you. Got it in one last time. Classic.
This (to some extent) happened to me a couple years ago. I had a FWB that I had been sleeping with for a few months but who I had never gone on a date with. When he found out I had slept with someone else form a friend he got all emotional on me, even though he never expressed any more commitment then the FWB scenario. Guys are weird. Never understood that.
There must be something in the deepest region of our brains. I have reacted exactly the same way once. It was at the tail end of a relationship and I was sucked back in when I heard about the potential other man. Never thought I would do that!
Most people here think he made this confession because he wants MORE with the OP? How would telling her he slept with someone else help that cause?
My first thought was that he told you because he wants out, and his plan backfired when you weren't pissed off He even slept with you BEFORE he told you. Got it in one last time. Classic.
I was like "great, was she hot?" he looked at me angry and said "you don't give a flying ****, I just told you I slept with someone else!"
Love it. There is nothing that pisses me off more than someone trying (and ultimately failing) to make me jealous, and flipping the tables on them is always fun.
Men are like women in that we get attatched at times to someone who was just supposed to be a booty call. I can see why you wouldn't be upset though, when that's all it was in the first place.
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he tells me he met someone on this trip and slept with her. 
from the beginning we stated we wanted no commitmment, no strings, just a fwb relationship. We BOTH agreed to this, we have talked about it several times through out the month, we never said we would be exclusive.
He even slept with you BEFORE he told you. Got it in one last time. Classic. 
