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Old 02-26-2012, 09:43 PM
 
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I'd say that sadly these two didn't know each other well enough to be having sex in the first place.
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Old 02-26-2012, 09:46 PM
 
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OCD. That is just the beginning of the weirdness. Run, do not walk to the closest exit door. And don't come back.
LMAO!!!! This is basically what she did when she made up her mind to leave. LOL!!!!!

He called to make sure she got home okay, said he had a great time, that he liked her, yada, yada, etc.. She said if the night had turned out "normal", then she would have felt good about his words, but deep down she knows something isn't right and hasn't made a decision yet.

But I'm with YOU!! There are more things that might set him off and she won't know until he trips out over it.
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Old 02-26-2012, 09:50 PM
 
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I'd say that sadly these two didn't know each other well enough to be having sex in the first place.
In all fairness, the underwear thing isn't something that would come up in any type of pre-sex conversations until it actually HAPPENS.

Whether you've known them for two weeks or two months.
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Old 02-26-2012, 09:59 PM
 
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In all fairness, the underwear thing isn't something that would come up in any type of pre-sex conversations until it actually HAPPENS.

Whether you've known them for two weeks or two months.
You'd be surprised the clues and red flags you can uncover about a person when actually take the time to get to know them before you have sex
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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You'd be surprised the clues and red flags you can uncover about a person when actually take the time to get to know them before you have sex
But I'm afraid this is one that probably would not have surfaced unless you came right out and asked if they have any hangups. And even then, they might not think they're hangups or strange.

ETA: But you never know. It never hurts to know each other first.
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Old 02-26-2012, 10:13 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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You'd be surprised the clues and red flags you can uncover about a person when actually take the time to get to know them before you have sex
Unfortunately, I either want somebody pretty much NOW or never do...
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Old 02-26-2012, 11:03 PM
 
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I agreed with the person who said OCD. Are his beer bottles all lined up perfectly with the labels all facing the same way? Does he have to wash his hands a certain number of times? Run far and fast.

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Old 02-26-2012, 11:12 PM
 
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Well if she thinks he's hot, then I would think putting her underwear back on is no big deal. Yeah, it is a bit weird. Wonder what he would do if she showed up with some crotch less panties and wouldn't take them off and insisted on leaving her bra on? She may be thinking he will do until the next guy comes along.
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Old 02-27-2012, 02:14 AM
 
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LOL!! I'm still laughing at this two hours later!

She works in entertainment, so she met him at some event her company threw. She said she should have known he was too good to be true.

He's very good looking, smart, fun, nice body and they had fun the few times they hung out together. She said the sex was fabulous and everything was fine until the underwear thing. LMAO!!!

She doesn't know what she's gonna do, because she usually sleeps naked in LA cause it's always hot. Like most women, she NEVER puts her underwear back on if she plans on spending the night. It was too strange and I agree with her, but she's not ready to give up on him just yet, but she was incredibly turned off by his "insistence" she puts her underwear back on.
Weird. To me this is no different than a man demanding the woman dress in a way that suits him, not her.

Big time deal breaker, IMO.

He sounds like a control freak as well.
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Old 02-27-2012, 02:16 AM
 
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LOL.

If I were in his shoes, I'd just offer a shower together and change the sheets if it was that much of a problem... no need to sully a good night with articles of clothing that get in the way.
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