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How does someone who is extremely ugly get a date if they are not rich? I consider myself to be very ugly, yet I still see people who are married with kids and some of them look like mutants. Whats their secret?
There is something to be said for having confidence that will make a person appealing to the opposite sex. What, in your mind, determines what is ugly? Why do you think you are ugly? God don't make no junk so I find your post hard to understand. Dig up some confidence and I do believe your whole dating scene will change. Good luck.
How does someone who is extremely ugly get a date if they are not rich? I consider myself to be very ugly, yet I still see people who are married with kids and some of them look like mutants. Whats their secret?
I would assume the same way good looking people get them. They ask a person out.
Only people that consider someone (including themselves) ugly could possibly be ugly, and then I suspect it is just from inadequate love and nurturing in their upbringing.
Attraction based on superficial qualities is burned quickly, and usually someone gets hurt in the process.
Attraction to one's nature, character, and personal strengths are infinite and lasting.
If you believe you are ugly, you probably are -- to you. Learn to love yourself first, then the world. When you can love well, you are loved deeply.
I've seen tons of these threads, and they all seem to ask exactly the same thing:
" I don't feel that I have what it takes to get what I want. Why can't I have it anyway?"
or:
"I want someone who doesn't want me. Shouldn't they be forced by society and by guilt, to spend time with me anyway, on the grounds that, by my OWN estimation, I am a good person?"
The answer is ALWAYS no, of course.
As to the title/theme question: "how can an ugly guy get a chance?", why, they get as many chances as everyone does. But strong people win more physical challenges than weak ones, smart people win more knowledge contests than not-so-smart ones, and good looking people win more beauty contests (which includes the largest subset of mate-hunting elements) than not-so-attractive ones. If you want to WIN such a contest, you have to accept the parameters.
As to the notion that "there's someone for everyone," I say that is crap. It takes tremendous good fortune to find a compatible mate, and as with everything in this life, there are no guarantees for anything.
How does someone who is extremely ugly get a date if they are not rich? I consider myself to be very ugly, yet I still see people who are married with kids and some of them look like mutants. Whats their secret?
Some people have deeper values than other people. Personality is more important to them than looks. Also, some people meet in college or at work, where they discover they have a lot of common interests. Brain power counts for a lot, too. If you're off the charts intelligence-wise, your potential dating pool is going to be extremely small. And then there's the angle Rabbit just mentioned. Some assets are of the invisible kind. We had a poll here awhile ago, and most guys said they'd rather have a plain woman who needed sex several times a day than a hot-looking woman who wasn't much into sex.
I think we've covered all the possible explanations, lol !
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