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Well, in that case, I'd suggest either finding a hobby that gets you out of the house for a bit, or if you don't have a job, look for something you can save up some quick $ from- like even just enough for a bus ticket if it's that bad!!!!
I agree with this. And that's even if we are to assume his being "clingy" is the only major problem (you may find it less annoying and even likable if it becomes less frequent)... Yes, whether you think you want to stay or you think you want to go, a job or at least a hobby is the answer.
I have done that, yet he doesn't respect those boundaries. and yes it is annoying. To answer other responses, it is his place so i have to deal with it, i didnt come into this poor but sadly i am now, and yes hes partly to blame, but i by no means live for free and i dont have anyone here to stay with.
I see... you're giving him sex and putting up with his BS for room & board ?
Sweet deal for him and cheaper than getting a hooker off Craig's List. Personally, I'd kick you out and just get a hooker I could send home after an hour.
I see... you're giving him sex and putting up with his BS for room & board ?
Sweet deal for him and cheaper than getting a hooker off Craig's List. Personally, I'd kick you out and just get a hooker I could send home after an hour.
well since you brought it up i could count on one hand the number of times in a year!, so yeah, the clinging isnt the only issue!
Ive been with my guy for over a year; we have an up and down relationship....mostly down. To be honest, if i had the money, Id be outta here.
He just wont leave me alone to have time to myself and if i dont listen to his stories (his way of spending time together) he whines like a baby. I dont know how much longer i can stand it. Anyone ever deal with this?
Try to get a job and stop using each other. staying for money is wrong and him unloading on you when you have no interested in his stories is also wrong. the whole thing sounds like a farce. life's too short to be living out a farce; both of you need to find someone more compatible.
I have done that, yet he doesnt respect those boundaries. and yes it is annoying. To answer other responses, it is his place so i have to deal with it, i didnt come into this poor but sadly i am now, and yes hes partly to blame, but i by no means live for free and i dont have anyone here to stay with.
Okay, I'm going to assume you have a job.
If so moving should be easy. Go on craigslist and find a cheap room in your area. Keep trying and you will likely find one where you are month to month and no or little security deposit. They are out there. If you have any money at all or a friend or relative that can loan you some I think there is a good chance you can move out soon.
The other option is a womens shelter.
After the suggestions I just gave you are there any reasons you can't move out now?
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