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Old 05-09-2012, 06:27 AM
 
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I mean really, if women could think of sex in the same light as (most) men, think about how much easier life would be. There wouldn't be the millions of threads about boyfriends looking at other women, porn being a form of cheating, how guys are d-bags for engaging in FWB and one night stands, the list goes on and on and on.

I have managed to disconnect a lot of the emotional attachment that goes along with sex (unless I am in a relationship with someone I love) and let me tell you how much easier it is. I know women are going to say they prefer the obsessive neurotic behavior because it somehow elevates their ability to "feel" to a level that far surpasses that of a man, but really, all of the BS that goes along with that "connection" we're supposed to have during intercourse really just muddies the waters and complicated the he** out of sex for everyone.

What if women could step away from that, have sex and not necessarily have emotional attachments, but rather, to fulfill a need.

Thoughts?
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Old 05-09-2012, 06:31 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
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Alot of women are capable, and DO have sex with no emotional attachments.
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Old 05-09-2012, 06:32 AM
 
Location: US
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I think this song pops into my head


Nicki Minaj - Stupid Hoe (Explicit) - YouTube

Congrats you have regressed to your Neanderthal roots?
Congrats you are a hippie?
Congrats on your rash?
Congrats on your surprise kid showing up on your doorstep later?

LOL

Have fun with that.
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Old 05-09-2012, 06:33 AM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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I think girls are quick to judge guys for sexually related things when it makes no sense to do so. Like, "Oh you let this random girl give you head?! Wow you are such a pig!" Uhh, hahaha, are you serious? No guy is going to turn down something that feels great and requires no work, come on now, that doesn't make him a pig, that makes him smart and not a fool. You don't need any emotional connection to enjoy sexual activities, they are enjoyable in and of themselves. Are they better with someone you really love? Yeah, I think so for sure, but that doesn't mean it's necessary. It's just a bonus.

Also, just because a guy when he is single takes advantage of loose women doesn't make him a bad guy. It means he wasn't looking for more or didn't find more. There are a lot of worthless girls out there, and a lot of sluts, and they deserve to be used for exactly what they are. To treat them any differently would be a mistake that would only end up hurting you. My last gf was like that, a total tramp, and if I had used her that way too, I wouldn't have gotten hurt when I realized she cheated on me with at least a dozen guys.

Treat a lady like a lady, and be a gentleman, but treat a tramp like a tramp, because there's no other use for her anyway.
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Old 05-09-2012, 06:35 AM
 
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I think this song pops into my head


Nicki Minaj - Stupid Hoe (Explicit) - YouTube

Congrats you have regressed to your Neanderthal roots?
Congrats you are a hippie?
Congrats on your rash?
Congrats on your surprise kid showing up on your doorstep later?

LOL

Have fun with that.
Apparently removing feelings from sex means you completely lost your brain (if your a women of course)??
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Old 05-09-2012, 06:36 AM
 
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If we do, we're whores; if we don't, we're frigid.
Can't seem to win, can we?
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Old 05-09-2012, 06:37 AM
 
Location: US
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Apparently removing feelings from sex means you completely lost your brain (if your a women of course)??

No it means you are just exchanging one set of complications for another little boy.
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Old 05-09-2012, 06:38 AM
 
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I think girls are quick to judge guys for sexually related things when it makes no sense to do so. Like, "Oh you let this random girl give you head?! Wow you are such a pig!" Uhh, hahaha, are you serious? No guy is going to turn down something that feels great and requires no work, come on now, that doesn't make him a pig, that makes him smart and not a fool. You don't need any emotional connection to enjoy sexual activities, they are enjoyable in and of themselves. Are they better with someone you really love? Yeah, I think so for sure, but that doesn't mean it's necessary. It's just a bonus.

Also, just because a guy when he is single takes advantage of loose women doesn't make him a bad guy. It means he wasn't looking for more or didn't find more. There are a lot of worthless girls out there, and a lot of sluts, and they deserve to be used for exactly what they are. To treat them any differently would be a mistake that would only end up hurting you. My last gf was like that, a total tramp, and if I had used her that way too, I wouldn't have gotten hurt when I realized she cheated on me with at least a dozen guys.

Treat a lady like a lady, and be a gentleman, but treat a tramp like a tramp, because there's no other use for her anyway.
I said nothing about sleeping around. I said removing feelings of attachment during sex. But apparently the two (for women) cannot be disconnected.

If women dont have emotional feelings for a man she is sleeping with, she must be a *****. Common logic I guess
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Old 05-09-2012, 06:39 AM
 
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No it means you are just exchanging one set of complications for another little boy.
Have you heard of birth control?
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Old 05-09-2012, 06:39 AM
 
Location: US
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If we do, we're whores; if we don't, we're frigid.
Can't seem to win, can we?
If you don't keep the company on people like this you do. You know people who look at people like humans instead of kleenex. Not really a loss to turn off people that think as such. They are just interested in pleasure for themselves. Not exactly fun to be around or the type you can count on when things get rough.
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