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Well you can see my other post on that. You said its so complicated to have sex and care about the person. I am just pointing out its complicated when sex enters the picture no matter what your feelings are. So why be cheap about it? We can't all be disassociated sociopaths even if we want to.
Disassociated sociopaths? It's sex not murder!! I guess I should feel guilt for not having feelings for someone I am sleeping with and possibly be sentenced to life without the possibility of parole or maybe even the death sentence.
How sad that you're so disconnected from feelings. Doesn't it just feel like mutual masturbation?
Did I say across the board? No. I said being able to disconnect feelings from sex when you are not in a relationship (with someone you love). Jeesh! I feel like a broken record here.
Women really care about what other people think of them, and the last thing they want to be thought of is as sluts. If you create the right environment, where the woman knows that your relation is discreet, you can sleep with almost any woman on this planet, as soon as you meet her. This is why vacation sex is so common and easy. You also have to do your best to sweep a woman off her feet, so this way she can justify her slutty behavior. Thats all.
Women really care about what other people think of them, and the last thing they want to be thought of is as sluts. If you create the right environment, where the woman knows that your relation is discreet, you can sleep with almost any woman on this planet, as soon as you meet her. This is why vacation sex is so common and easy. You also have to do your best to sweep a woman off her feet, so this way she can justify her slutty behavior. Thats all.
Nice try, but not all women are like this.
If there was no risk of pregnancy, no risk of STD's, no risk of being thought of as a ****...etc. I still wouldn't have sex without any emotional attachment. It just doesn't feel half as good and it's not worth my time or energy.
Disassociated sociopaths? It's sex not murder!! I guess I should feel guilt for not having feelings for someone I am sleeping with and possibly be sentenced to life without the possibility of parole or maybe even the death sentence.
Inmate: "What are you in for"
Me: "Not loving the man I slept with"
You don't have to kill someone to be a sociopath. Most killers do start out with social isolation and neglecting to bond with others though. So at least if you did go to jail for not loving someone you would be in the company of like minds.
"Need for Stimulation
Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common. "
"Callousness/Lack of Empathy
Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them."
"Incapacity for Love"
"Shallow Emotions
When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises. "
"Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them "
You don't have to kill someone to be a sociopath. Most killers do start out with social isolation and neglecting to bond with others though. So at least if you did go to jail for not loving someone you would be in the company of like minds.
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Take a ride on the literal train much?! My sarcasm really seems to escape you. And for the millionth time, I didn't say that I disconnect emotions from everyone.
Did I say across the board? No. I said being able to disconnect feelings from sex when you are not in a relationship (with someone you love). Jeesh! I feel like a broken record here.
Keep disconnecting enough and it will become the norm
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