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Old 04-30-2012, 02:39 PM
 
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She's a girl friend and it's been about a year. For whatever reason she is acting like this can you see your self going through this in the future? If you don't see a future it's best to move on because why draw out something and waste time? Time is something you can't get back...

To me there are levels of tolerance. There are different levels per title of girlfriend, fiancee, and wife. The only one who has right is the one with the title of wife. Up until that it's all about per-screening. for the position of wife.. No way I would allow anyone but a wife to speak to me any old way and then again I wouldn't marry a woman with a nasty attitude and cusses at me..

Then again as I'm not married or have never been married I'm great at giving advice about the perfect marriage/mate.
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Old 04-30-2012, 02:55 PM
 
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I believe the saying "Familiarity breeds contempt" may apply. She may feel comfortable enough around you that she is no longer on "Good behaviour" and has become your Antagonist. All relationships go through cycles: Some good some not so good. For whatever reason we as humans look at time invested in some one as something valuable and worth hanging on to; This is not always the case. Most relationships I see that get to this point(with out good reason) fit this scenario. If you and her can't come to some common ground "Free yourself now!".
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Old 05-04-2012, 11:48 AM
 
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Sorry for not replying, I've been busy with work and such Haha. Anyways, it's hard to really tell what she's exactly going through or what she's thinking of for that matter. I'm guessing she enjoys conflict ( a recurring theme with her other ex boyfriends), the thing is I've noticed the pattern with her being a little clingy and angry at times. She's a really nice person though and she's fun to be around with friends. I'm not going to lie, I tend to have my own personal problems but I tend to keep it to myself.
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