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Old 05-20-2012, 11:06 PM
 
Location: USA
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You're kidding, right? You look just like him? You must be gorgeous, then.
Haha, I jest . Im older. I look more like Robert Downey jr
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Old 05-20-2012, 11:35 PM
 
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I couldn't do it. I would always have a feeling he was keeping it on the down low. Without trust, there's no relationship. I'm good!
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Old 10-27-2013, 03:54 PM
 
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If she told me she experimented in the past It would be a big deal. I would be more concerned if I found out on my own. Because iota would make me think she wanted to be with women but was in the closet. Really it's a lot more common than you think for both men and women.
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Old 10-28-2013, 08:13 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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I did nothing. It had nothing to do with our relationship.
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Old 10-28-2013, 01:37 PM
 
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[quote=Kaffegal05;24305587]
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That's sad. Let's hope you dont ever find out about your partners history, because in NYC "straight" men having sex with men is relatively common.[/quote]

I'm in NYC, Thanks for the warning. Yikes!

On a serious note, I have asked the guy who I was seeing, if he's ever been attracted to/ or slept with a guy. There was nothing about him that prompted me to suspect that he was bisexual or homosexual, but I do this for safety reasons because STDs are very prevalent amongst homosexuals.

I simply prefer straight men with absolutely no sexual interest in men. I would be grossed out just thinking that my date liked men too. I know that some women have no problems with this, but it's definitely not for me.
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Old 10-28-2013, 01:40 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Non issue. Probably 75% of the women I've been with have slept with women, at least as part of threesomes, at some point.

People again are, not surprisingly, confusing sex acts with sexual orientation. Very very different things.
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Old 10-28-2013, 01:41 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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He has, and it doesn't matter to me considering I'm about a two on the Kinsey scale.
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Old 08-25-2016, 08:09 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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Thread is old....

We don't know your boyfriends sexual preferences... you should talk to him about it.
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Old 08-25-2016, 11:42 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I would never want to date a woman who has had sex with another woman.
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Old 08-25-2016, 12:35 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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Does it really matter what they did before they were with you?

What does it matter if they had homosexual experiences before they were with you?
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