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Very fine blond hairs aren't any big deal. Those can be plucked or waxed. If she has "whiskers" like mine (dark brown/black equal 3x thick as hair on your head).....get after that ASAP! I saw a woman working at McD's a few years ago who needed to Mach3 that baby everyday and by 5 o clock, it was showing again. It freaked me out. That's a job for laser or waxing. You don't have woman facial hair. That's a beard for crying out loud.
Duh, those fine blonde hairs will turn into whiskers if she starts waxing or shaving them .
How old are you and how old is she? Women grow hair. Some have more hair or less hair than others. She's not gonna want to wax or shave her entire face - sorry. There are other treatments - laser might work. But if you want to run screaming from your girlfriend because of this, just do her a favor and dump her. The panic in your post indicates this isn't a minor issue, so even if she made an effort, she'd do it under the duress of knowing she would lose you if she didn't keep up her efforts to control the issue or if her efforts were unsuccessful. Not a good Sword of Damocles to have hanging over one's head.
Maybe you could find someone with alopecia?
I did read somewhere that "too hairy" was one of the top reasons men dumped their girlfriends.
I'd say you need to move on....if something that simple bothers you, and you cant talk to her about it...what kind of relationship do you have??? Personally i liked the Spa idea,,,but discuss it with her, communication is the key.
Congratulations, you are dating a mammal. Because you say you care about her, my advice is to look at the cheeks of every woman you see. Everybody has hair on his or her face. You may just not have noticed till now. Get a good look at other women and then decide if it's really that big a deal. You've been together six months and just now noticed, so I doubt she is really that hairy.
I have been going out with my girlfriend now for about 6 months now, she is lovely, I care for her so very much and I really want to be with her....However over the last week or so I have noticed that she has got quite a fluffy face (very fine blonde hairs) on her cheeks, chin and upper lip, the hairs seem to be quite long, 1cm give or take... Now the worst thing is every time I look at her (especially side on) I cant help but focus on the hairs... What do I do?? How do I mention something to her without her kicking off, or feeling really insecure. I am in a real pickle?? can anyone help?
^^^ it sounds like written by someone insecure, immature and real pickle ( that's your words!) You might need a help...
Do you own a mirror?? Are you perfect inside out?? What you expect her to do? Shave?
If you are grossed out by your GF facial hair then find you another GF.
This is a pet peeve of mine. WTH is wrong with us as a society that we view normal hair growth on women as disgusting? It's gotten to the point that we're waxing & lasering & shaving everything from toes to nose: feet, legs, genitalia, arms, underarms, stomachs, faces ... everything. Our standards for what is a beautiful female body are warped. Now we have home anal bleaching kits, for crying out loud.
I have been going out with my girlfriend now for about 6 months now, she is lovely, I care for her so very much and I really want to be with her....However over the last week or so I have noticed that she has got quite a fluffy face (very fine blonde hairs) on her cheeks, chin and upper lip, the hairs seem to be quite long, 1cm give or take... Now the worst thing is every time I look at her (especially side on) I cant help but focus on the hairs... What do I do?? How do I mention something to her without her kicking off, or feeling really insecure. I am in a real pickle?? can anyone help?
Buy a tube of Nair which is a hair removal product , and put it in her makeup case ; she will think she bought it in the past. But just as a sidenote....if you decide to stay with her as in the rest of your life.....facial hair is going to be the least of your concerns -- those will be small pecadillos compared to marriage overall. Its sometimes best to major on the majors and minor on the minors . Another adage is : 'Is this the Hill you want to die on ?!' (By the way....whats with the nose hairs YOU got showing themselves ???? lol....) .
I have been going out with my girlfriend now for about 6 months now, she is lovely, I care for her so very much and I really want to be with her....However over the last week or so I have noticed that she has got quite a fluffy face (very fine blonde hairs) on her cheeks, chin and upper lip, the hairs seem to be quite long, 1cm give or take... Now the worst thing is every time I look at her (especially side on) I cant help but focus on the hairs... What do I do?? How do I mention something to her without her kicking off, or feeling really insecure. I am in a real pickle?? can anyone help?
There really isnt a good way to tell someone you care for that their slight physical flaws gross you out. Fine, hardly noticeable, normal body hair today, what will it be tomorrow. Find someone perfect with no physical flaws like body hair, moles, freckles, warts, scars, crooked teeth, gapped teeth, missing teeth, dry skin, oily skin, birthmarks, stretch marks, wonkie eye, cross eyed, pigeon toe, camel toe, knocked kneed, bunions, outie belly button, inverted nipples............................
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