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Old 07-17-2012, 02:03 PM
 
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I woke up at 2am feeling severe pain on back. suspecting of having kidny stone, I was getting ready to drive myself to an ER, but my girl friend insisted that she drove me because she worried about me. We went to hospital together and stayed there untill 8am in the morning, gf has companied me the whole time.

We came home and rested briefly, I was fine and started working from home and girl friend had to go to a doctor appointment at 10am, she went for 2 hours, after she's back I asked if everything was ok she said yes. So i asked if she could cook something for me that's when gf went off and said that I had no consideration for her and no heart. She went on saying that she just had a precedure done at docotor's office and still feeling pain herself. How could I even ask her to cook. I felt like all she needed to do was just telling me that she's tired instead giving me all of this complaining ****. I yelled at her to shut up and feeling dissapointed that she would start a fight over something like this.

 
Old 07-17-2012, 02:05 PM
 
Location: USA
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I think both of you are tired and need to take a nap
 
Old 07-17-2012, 02:06 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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just dump her.
 
Old 07-17-2012, 02:12 PM
 
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You may not realize this.... but girls have this strange idea that who ever can yell louder is right... I know when I'm pissed I can't help but yell. I also know when I'm tired I can lose my mind over nothing. And there is nothing worse than not feeling appreciated, I hope you had at least thanked her for staying up with you all night even though she had her own thing going on in the morning.
 
Old 07-17-2012, 02:21 PM
 
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You may not realize this.... but girls have this strange idea that who ever can yell louder is right...

???!?! Maybe "girls" do. That would be why it makes sense for men to date WOMEN.
 
Old 07-17-2012, 02:22 PM
 
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I woke up at 2am feeling severe pain on back. suspecting of having kidny stone, I was getting ready to drive myself to an ER, but my girl friend insisted that she drove me because she worried about me. We went to hospital together and stayed there untill 8am in the morning, gf has companied me the whole time.

We came home and rested briefly, I was fine and started working from home and girl friend had to go to a doctor appointment at 10am, she went for 2 hours, after she's back I asked if everything was ok she said yes. So i asked if she could cook something for me that's when gf went off and said that I had no consideration for her and no heart. She went on saying that she just had a precedure done at docotor's office and still feeling pain herself. How could I even ask her to cook. I felt like all she needed to do was just telling me that she's tired instead giving me all of this complaining ****. I yelled at her to shut up and feeling dissapointed that she would start a fight over something like this.
Dude, she had no sleep and then had a procedure after, and you asked her to cook for you? And you're disappointed in her? She shouldn't have gone off on you like that, but when I'm sleep deprived, rational is not necessarily on the plate. Hint: That's when you call the pizza delivery guy. Or just get yourself some damn crackers.

Honestly? I'm disappointed in both of you. Get some sleep.
 
Old 07-17-2012, 02:24 PM
 
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Dude, she had no sleep and then had a procedure after, and you asked her to cook for you? And you're disappointed in her? She shouldn't have gone off on you like that, but when I'm sleep deprived, rational is not necessarily on the plate. Hint: That's when you call the pizza delivery guy. Or just get yourself some damn crackers.

Honestly? I'm disappointed in both of you. Get some sleep.
This.
 
Old 07-17-2012, 02:26 PM
 
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I woke up at 2am feeling severe pain on back. suspecting of having kidny stone, I was getting ready to drive myself to an ER, but my girl friend insisted that she drove me because she worried about me. We went to hospital together and stayed there untill 8am in the morning, gf has companied me the whole time.

We came home and rested briefly, I was fine and started working from home and girl friend had to go to a doctor appointment at 10am, she went for 2 hours, after she's back I asked if everything was ok she said yes. So i asked if she could cook something for me that's when gf went off and said that I had no consideration for her and no heart. She went on saying that she just had a precedure done at docotor's office and still feeling pain herself. How could I even ask her to cook. I felt like all she needed to do was just telling me that she's tired instead giving me all of this complaining ****. I yelled at her to shut up and feeling dissapointed that she would start a fight over something like this.
She has a point. She stayed up with you all night at the hospital, then went through a procedure herself, and you ask her to do yet more for you?

Really?

What are you, helpless? Last I checked, the aftermath of a kidney stone doesn't leave your hands and legs paralyzed. If you are that hungry, stand up, open a can of soup or a box of cereal, or make yourself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, and knock yourself out.
 
Old 07-17-2012, 03:35 PM
 
Location: PA
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Is this the first time you two blew up at each other, or is it a pattern?

A combination of stress, lack of sleep, and pain is enough to make anyone crotchety. Maybe you both can have a civil talk about it when you're both rested and pain-free?
 
Old 07-17-2012, 03:41 PM
 
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Just dial the phone and get something delivered. I don't blame her for being ticked.
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