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This is exactly it. The guys that come up and say lewd, disgusting things are NEVER going to be considered viable dating prospects. Ever. I don't count those as men approaching because 9 times out of 10 when I say no thank you, they immediately go to the next woman and try the same thing. These guys are just looking for a place to put their penis and nothing more.
Maybe some men consider that an 'option', but as a woman I consider it harassment.
How many guys have women walking up to them offering No strings attached sex....? Like ever.....
First, I never said you said that no man approached you I was generalizing for most of the people that say they had problems finding someone. Secondly your comparing a scenario of drunk guys who just want to have sex to guys who legitimately want to get to know someone and have a relationship. That's not right
This is the difference we're trying to get across. I can count on one hand the men who have approached me for a legitimate date/relationship in my life. However, I have been harassed more times than I can count by both drunk and sober men. The first one, I count as being approached. The second one I don't.
How many guys have women walking up to them offering No strings attached sex....? Like ever.....
so? if that's what men want, that's their buisness, most women don't want a guy walking up offering 'no strings attached sex.' Also I see no shortage of women having FWB relationships and such, they can get into one of those.
As I said time and again: if all they want is 'no strings attached sex' -- get a hooker.
How many guys have women walking up to them offering No strings attached sex....? Like ever.....
It's different for women. Most men want to get laid by as many different women as they can. Many of them have absolutely zero standards for who she is, as long as she has a vagina.
Sure, there are women like that as well, but their numbers are far lower.
Personally, I consider a guy coming up to me and offering 'no strings attached sex' low class and disgusting.
I think that Bradpiff is right on topic. I also think mostly everyone else has some good comments as well. People are are weird species and we will never understand each other completely which is what makes us all good in our own little way.Men may not pay attention to anyone they are not attracted too but women will do the same thing. No sex is perfect and until they find what there looking for it's the opposite sexes fault. Mainly I see it as there fault. Men and women are both picky about who they want, as am I. I get asked out a lot, but it ultimately is my choice to choose who I want. So as for the others. I'm no where near the prettiest in town but neither are a lot of woman and yet they are set on finding this fairy tale man with everything in one. Men are the same way as well at least some of each category. No one side is right and never will be.
This is the difference we're trying to get across. I can count on one hand the men who have approached me for a legitimate date/relationship in my life. However, I have been harassed more times than I can count by both drunk and sober men. The first one, I count as being approached. The second one I don't.
I agree with this. Being asked something once or twice in life means diddly squat to me, when compared I can give numerous examples of other behaviors.
so? if that's what men want, that's their buisness, most women don't want a guy walking up offering 'no strings attached sex.' Also I see no shortage of women having FWB relationships and such, they can get into one of those.
As I said time and again: if all they want is 'no strings attached sex' -- get a hooker.
Lol it's not no strings attached because you have to pay for it. That's my point, that's an option most women have that 95% of the male population will never have in their LIVES. Except rockstars and entertainers
The reason women take sex for granted because they can get it so easily. But that's also the reason they value relationships so much.
[/b] Lol it's not no strings attached because you have to pay for it. That's my point, that's an option most women have that 95% of the male population will never have in their LIVES. Except rockstars and entertainers
The reason women take sex for granted because they can get it so easily. But that's also the reason they value relationships so much.
It is NO strings attached, hookers don't care if you 'get to know them personally' and they will not waiting for you call them after your date, etc.
men will always do what you do: their problems/issues are worldwide disasters (poor men) and women's problems/issues are irrelevant or overblown.
I don't care anymore, think what you want.
edit: someday the ignore function will make sense to all, LOL. (not you brad)
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"And let's be honest, a lot of the people being turned down(on BOTH sides) are in the same realm of attractiveness as the people that are rejecting them. I see a lot of Guys women turn down(who say NO GUY approaches me) that are basically on their same level."
Alot of times it's people overrating their own Level of attractiveness.(and guys a lot of the time overrating their career and economic prospects) I rarely see "3"s approaching "10"s of "5" approaching "9"s. so it's not like the people who are interested in them are always so beneath their level. At some point it comes down to people being too picky.
"No woman wants me" and "No women I WANT wants me"
I don't understand this.
The women you want should be the women who want you. Why would you want a woman who doesn't want you?...it's like the first thing you look for when you are deciding if you want a woman.
Also, stop "wanting" women. They aren't things to be "wanted". It's disrespectful.
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