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I guess there are worse things. I know there are worse things. In fact, there are worse aspects of my own life.
But, darn, I'm sick of this. Every time I see a woman that's interesting to me, I'm too scared to ever approach her.
Of course, I never talk to anybody anyways, have no hobbies other than watching TV and surfing the internet.
But I see a couple of women in places where I go, and one or two of them smile at me, but I have no courage to do anything more than smiling back.
I just figure there's no way any of them would be interested in dating me, so I might as well save myself the embarrassment and stress.
I'm not interested in dating people who are completely unattractive to me. There'd be no point in that. It'd do nothing for me. But, I'm attracted to at least 50% of women my age and up to one decade older, and still I have no hope of ever having a girlfriend. Other guys I know are way more picky than me, so I understand why they don't have a girlfriend. But me, I'm sick of seeing a few women that others would reject and yet still having no courage to talk to them or meet them.
And now all the hot college kids are going to be descending on central PA again, and I'm going to get even more depressed. Summer used to be my time to feel a little less depressed because I didn't have to see all these beautiful young women all the time. But this summer didn't do anything for me. I'm as depressed as ever.
I hate living in this college town dump, a wasteland for anyone who's unmarried and over 24 years old. But I'm stuck here because I can't get a job anywhere else.
I'm sick of this garbage. If I were in a place where there were a lot more women, at least I'd have a chance of maybe getting my courage up someday. But here, where available women are as rare as wolverines, my chances are about the same as winning the lottery.
I'm sick of this rotten luck.
If that is your choice to give up and NOT change how you live your life, okay.
Yeah but you are gorgeous, what could you possibly need to embellish on?
I'm really not, but thank you for the compliment regardless.
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Originally Posted by Trackwatch
They don't like "fake" women but like big Taataas and think women that go out without warpaint on are "ugly".
They blame their lack of companionship on everyone/everything but the "man in the mirror".
Unfortunately, most men think this way. They want the 'fake' look, but they want it to be natural. It takes just as long to put on 'natural' makeup that looks like you're not wearing any, as it does to put on on warpaint type makeup. Plus, some women are naturally endowed and not fake.
So confused right now. I'm wondering how many beers I actually drank.
I think what he meant was that men overwhelmingly prefer the fake look (see Playboy, Hustler, porn, magazines etc.) but then say they want a 'natural' woman. When a natural women is around them though, they do tend to pick on them for not wearing makeup or think of them as 'letting themselves go'. I've experienced that plenty in my life.
Men generally go for the heavily made up, fake women and at the same time say they don't want them.
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