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Women like to have SEX with badboys and like to SETTLE DOWN with the nice guys.
Sad thing is some of them end up either pregnant or having so much sex that they use themselves up during their best years. Then when they do decide to settle down no nice guy wants them.
That's bull****. Nice guys save these women all the time. No matter how many miles they have on them or amount of children
Interesting. So how does that work? Do you inquire into the potential date's background through a series of questions to make sure he is an ex-bad boy? What about guys who weren't formerly bad boys? Are they dismissed?
Not at all. It's just I've noticed I tend to click the best with those kinds of guys. I am open to dating anyone who meets my very basic standards.
However, I find that there is a certain type that DOES mesh well with me. I think it's an issue of balance. They just have a different set of survival skills than I do. I also have a rather odd background, and I find that guys who have taken a nontraditional route in life are a little more accepting of my own offbeat nature.
Keep in mind that these are guys who are well-past the BS of lawbreaking and substance abuse and cheating. They all have been highly intelligent and well-read, and they all have treated me well. Someone who was abusive or volatile (or stupid) wouldn't last 10 minutes with me.
But my long-term relationships have all been with guys who went through extended rebellious period when they were younger. It's just a pattern I noticed after a while, certainly nothing I was consciously looking for.
Women like to have SEX with badboys and like to SETTLE DOWN with the nice guys.
Sad thing is some of them end up either pregnant or having so much sex that they use themselves up during their best years. Then when they do decide to settle down no nice guy wants them.
I had no idea that sex (for women only of course) is a non-replenishing commodity. What happens when all her sex is used up? Does the hole close? I need to know this so I can start budgeting accordingly. After 30 odd years of sex surely my tank is close to empty!
sure but a woman that wants an ex-bad boy? Tells me that she hasnt grown up yet
Maybe not. Maybe I'll never grow up. I'm pretty happy with who I am though, so I'm gonna ride that for now.
I'm open to dating pretty much anyone who meets my standards, and "bad boy" status isn't one of them. But it has worked out that those are the guys that gravitate towards me and those are the guys I tend to click with. That tends to be who I grew up with in my family, so that may be part of the reason. I relate well to guys like that.
I also had some horrific experiences with bullying at the private school I went to when I was in middle/high school. The "nice boys" put me through hell. To this day, I would say my instinct is not to trust the conventional white-collar guy who looks just a little too polished.
Ive had it with women. Sick of being used for a few free meals then never hear from them again. Tired of writing long well thought out messages on match .com and not hear so much as a one sentence reply. Tired of their superficial impossibly high standards . Maybe I'll just start being a self obsessed, arrogant, jerk then Ill start getting girls in droves!
Or maybe they sense bitterness and desperation from you. Also, don't speak for women especially since you have no clue about them. As for becoming a jerk, sure, go ahead and do that
Nice guys don't save them. Guys with LOW SELF-ESTEEM save SOME of them. Have you seen the number of SINGLE MOTHERS out here?????
Yeah, as many as there are SINGLE DADS, except the MOMS actually step up and take care of the children so the man can go out and impregnate more unsuspecting women. Most men who have kids don't tell people they do... I can't tell you how many dates I had where the men ended up having 2 or 3 children floating around that they neglected to mention. Guess they didn't want to be 'judged' on it
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Originally Posted by zentropa
I had no idea that sex (for women only of course) is a non-replenishing commodity. What happens when all her sex is used up? Does the hole close? I need to know this so I can start budgeting accordingly. After 30 odd years of sex surely my tank is close to empty!
I wonder if there is a 'sex budgeting' app I can throw on my phone....
Nobody says that. As I said women like nice guys but not wimps.
Often wimps disguise themselves as "nice guys" but there is a huge difference between these two types.
Being a nice guy does not mean you let everybody pee on your head.
Being a nice guy does not mean that you can't stand up for yourself or be assertive.
Nice guys are good for women, wimps are bad.
Are we clear now?
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