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OP, stop texting her more than once or twice a week. It's MUCH better that she comes looking for you. It shows her interest, and you talk face to face, which is vastly better than bland text. The constant texting is probably a nuisance, shows you're too dependent, and really is boring. Change your ways, or you'll probably be looking for a new girlfriend soon.
OP, stop texting her more than once or twice a week. It's MUCH better that she comes looking for you. It shows her interest, and you talk face to face, which is vastly better than bland text. The constant texting is probably a nuisance, shows you're too dependent, and really is boring. Change your ways, or you'll probably be looking for a new girlfriend soon.
Im just afraid if she'll thought that i dont have interest in her anymore and not being serious, if i start to txt her lesser?
IMO a couple who has nothing in common or is unable to interact in a manner which engages their interest is doomed to failure. Boredom is a failsafe one way ticket to relationship disaster as far as I am concerned. I have been with Hubby for almost 24 years now and have often wanted to throw sharp objects at him but he has NEVER once bored me.
Why would anyone stay with someone they find dull and insipid ? It does not mean you have to be interesting to everyone in sight but the one you intend to be with would be a minimum requirement. We all have different ideas of what is boring and what is exciting but you need to at least elicit some interest in your girlfriend otherwise all is lost... Maybe she is not the right girl for the OP.
Invite her to do something. Then you'll have another topic of conversation...what you did, what else you might want to do. Make plans and follow through with them. At some point, though, ask her if she even likes to text and if so, tell her that you would like to get texts from her. Just say it. If you learn to be direct now, when you are so young, you will carry that lesson with you for future relationships.
Texting, the degradation of our social skills. Are you 12 years old?
You can not hold a meaningful conversation over texts or emails because there is no emotion. You need to hear a voice or even see a face with that voice.
How old are you? I think you really don't "love" her. Do you know what love is? Just move on is my advice. She sounds boring too.
There is no boring moments, only boring people. Remember that. If she is "bored" it is your fault AND HERS.
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