Straight-Identified Men Who Have Sex With Men (younger, children, college)
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For example, I knew of this young gay Asian male who would go to night clubs at least 4x a week to find random guys to sleep with. I'm taking every other day, every week, he was in some hotel with a random guy he met at a club having sex. He did it for the thrill. And what about all the bath houses that only gay men use to have sex with other random men? You just don't have that kind of stuff for straight people other then sex parties/swinger clubs which are really just a bunch of people who already know each other and exclude everyone else.
And yes, like the poster said, this guy told me he would sleep with men who on the street you would think they were strait. Firemen, Police officers, and successful business men he told me were many of the kinds of guys he would sleep with regularly.
I'd like to know if that guy's prostate is still intact.
I am not trying to police anyone's sexual behavior or orientation. I mentioned earlier that I do have some gay male friends. So I don't believe in policing behaviors.
I just think if you're going around sticking your penis in men, then you must be doing it because you like them in some what. Gay sex doesn't "sneak up" on people. Sorry even if I was majorly horny, the fact of the matter is that I would get turned and pisse off if a gay man was offering to help me out and take care of me.
Anyway I noticed one thing about the gay community, they love straight men. It's a turn on for them to sleep with a straight man. for the most part the whole idea of a straight man sleeping with men is pretty much just some gay male fantasy anyway. Ever noticed that gay males always try to market their fantasies as straight males? Gay men don't want a gay man, they want a straight man. They would rather go around pretending a bisexual man who will sleep with them is straight.
Opportunities for sex do sneak up on people all the time. Again, this is how men end up sleeping with women they don't find attractive.
There is a particular subset of gay porn that is focused on straight men...but that is not at all the majority of gay porn. Trust me, I know of what I speak. That's like saying the suit meme in gay porn represents all gay fantasies.
And the equivalent is very prevalent in straight porn and fantasy as well. How many porn vids start out with a man either seducing or being seduced by a taken women? How many involve straight guys and lesbians? The power of that fantasy is being so alluring and good at sex that you can change someone. Straights find that just as appealing as gays.
Policing someone's sexual orientation is telling them you know better than they do what they are. It's a crappy thing to do and it's how bisexuals are so often erased, prejudged, or marginalized.
I am not trying to police anyone's sexual behavior or orientation. I mentioned earlier that I do have some gay male friends. So I don't believe in policing behaviors.
I just think if you're going around sticking your penis in men, then you must be doing it because you like them in some what. Gay sex doesn't "sneak up" on people. Sorry even if I was majorly horny, the fact of the matter is that I would get turned and pisse off if a gay man was offering to help me out and take care of me.
Anyway I noticed one thing about the gay community, they love straight men. It's a turn on for them to sleep with a straight man. for the most part the whole idea of a straight man sleeping with men is pretty much just some gay male fantasy anyway. Ever noticed that gay males always try to market their fantasies as straight males? Gay men don't want a gay man, they want a straight man. They would rather go around pretending a bisexual man who will sleep with them is straight.
Thank you for saying this I do not get.Do they want to be in a relationship with a straight man? I mean what's the point of bagging a 100% straight guy? Any man that lays with another man is Gay.And to be honest I think it's really sick that some gay men would self hate themselves so much, they cannot stand to be around another gay man.
I know of a guy who was in a long distance relationship with a woman, but used to receive oral 2-3 times a week from one of his male roommates (who was a very feminine gay guy). The guy is now married to the woman he was in a long distance relationship with, but she has no idea about him receiving oral from the gay roommate.
Because attraction is not necessary for arousal and sex perhaps? Why do men have sex with women they aren't attracted to? Are you telling me that straight men are either attracted to ALL women, or never ever sex with a women they find unappealing just because she's available?
Unfortunately, I can't respond by quoting point by point, so my responses will be in bold.....I think SOME straight men will have sex with women because they are female, not necessarily because they're attracted to them. Again, some straight men fit that description.
Basically what you are saying is that sexual action is the same as sexual orientation (it isn't), so men who have sex with men MUST be gay.
yes, that is what I am saying.
But if they have also have sex with women....then that sexual action (which in your theory is the same as sexual orientation)...somehow doesn't count? Because bisexuals don't exist? So answer your own question...if these men are gay and not bisexual, why are they are having sex with women? Since by your theory it is simply impossible to have sex with someone without being sexually attracted to them?
In my opinion it is impossible to have sex with someone, as a male, if you are not aroused by them. Attraction and arousal are different, but they are related.
Do you understand that you can't have it both ways and still adhere to any kind of earth logic?
Refusing to have sex with a bisexual simply because they are bisexual, btw, is bigoted. You are judging a person on the sole basis of their sexual orientation...that's pretty much the definition of bigoted. I would dump a man who cheated on me with another man in two seconds flat. I would date a bisexual who was up front about his history no problem. Gay, bisexual, or straight, I would require any partners to have a STD test before engaging in relations without protection. THAT is how you protect yourself...not by making snap judgements based solely on orientation. Not only is it bigoted to do so, it's dangerous because you are downplaying the very real risk involved in heterosexual sex.
in this paragraph you aren't responding to anything I've written, and I have no opinion on this part of your post..
I don't know, I tend to think the one with the problem is the person worrying over who is sticking what up where in someone else. Policing another person's sexual orientation is just...strange. And sad.
Nobody is worrying about anyone's genitals. This is a response to some posts people, including yourself, have made on this thread. That's all.
You're right in that most straight men aren't looking for gay sex. Seeking gay sex willfully implies a sexual attraction, which implies they are gay or bi. But if gay sex should happen to sneak up on them and they fail to turn it down while horny, it doesn't magically change their sexual orientation.
Gay sex does not "sneak up on people.
If someone offered you five billion dollars to engage in gay sex, would you do it? If you say no, that's fine and I'll even believe it. But if a different man says yes, I don't think that makes him gay...it just makes him rich.
It makes someone who's willing to be gay for a lot of money. And no, I would not do it.
I know of a guy who was in a long distance relationship with a woman, but used to receive oral 2-3 times a week from one of his male roommates (who was a very feminine gay guy). The guy is now married to the woman he was in a long distance relationship with, but she has no idea about him receiving oral from the gay roommate.
Wow. Nobody can be trusted these days.
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