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I'm using the medical definitions, which further lean toward being too generous for everyone except beyond-casual weight-lifters. Not every thin woman is a bombshell, but, bar major facial flaws/disfigurement (and no, moderate acne or a big nose or whatever does not count) or a very off-putting vibe, a thin women in her twenties IS going to get a fair deal of male attention, simply by sheer virtue of attractiveness relative to the dating pool as a whole.
In my personal experience, it generally is bar my earlier caveats of really major facial problems or seeming very hostile to potential approaches. It could be possible that my experience and implied advice hold, and making sure not to come off as angry or hostilely-inclined to someone saying "hi" would help, and it could also be possible that my experience is from an sufficiently alien social environment and doesn't apply to you. I'd be the first to admit my friends and acquaintances are nothing close to a random sample of the population.
Just be yourself and assertive in asking the guys out. Any guy who is afraid of being chased has no balls or isn't open minded about life.
Women who come on to guys are creepy...and I generally think they're huge sluts. Might be a major misperception, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks that.
And obviously I mean in the same way dudes do it. Maybe she sucks at flirting.
There is no sense in even wasting the time to type this. NO ANSWER is ever going to be acceptable because there will always be an excuse as to why it isn't...blah, blah, blah or it is someone's fault because they are shallow, sexy, more endowed, has better hair, has a brain, has no self loathing, etc. etc. etc but here goes one more time and I know I am going to regret this but oh well.
YOU are the ONLY ONE who can make YOU HAPPY and until you completely grasp, accept and acknowledge this truth you WILL ALWAYS attract NO ONE who is even remotely close to a good human. YOU could be the most beautiful woman in the world and you will NOT attract anyone because of YOUR attitude about YOURSELF.
Amazingly NOT ALL MEN ARE SHALLOW, some men actually see the woman beyond the boobs, butt and **** spiked heels.
There are men who want a woman who can actually carry on an intelligent conversation, who has her own life and is not dependant on him to entertain her 24/7, who is confidant, who loves herself with all her flaws who does NOT compare herself to every other stinking woman on the planet, who can accept the fact that he has flaws as well and he will look at other attractive women and he may watch porn from time to time but he is committed to HIS WOMAN the one he goes home to after work, the one he falls into bed with, the one he wraps himself around as they sleep, the one woman on the planet that makes him whole and his life complete. It is an amazing thing that happens when you have more to offer another human than bitterness, crappy attitude, self loathing, self hate and insecurity.
Why are you feeling that you are in 'competition' with these women?
One poster mentioned something about this earlier in this thread, don't go tp places where there a lot of hot women. If i'm looking to meet women, the last place i'm going is to a place with a ton of good looking men wearing suits are going to be hanging out.
Put yourself in a better position to be 'met' by men if meeting men is a priority.
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