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Old 10-19-2012, 03:51 PM
 
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Really fellas? A lot of dudes out there scream to the high heavens of how fat chicks are repulsive or they'll never date or touch a fat woman or how fat women are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes dating. But lo and behold if you actually look outside your house you'll see that there are several overweight women who have BF's/husbands and are in relationships.

In all honesty. Is it time for this idea that 'fat women are the bottom of the totem pole need to die'?

Because seriously at this point the men who say this need to just speak for themselves.

 
Old 10-19-2012, 03:55 PM
 
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Not to me.

I've seen some rather chubby women that I find attractive. However, I doubt someone who is obese would be my first choice. If I hit it off with an obese woman, then I might give it a little further consideration.
 
Old 10-19-2012, 03:58 PM
 
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Not at all!

There's some amazing people out there, both big and small. Plenty of good folks out there who love big women.
 
Old 10-19-2012, 04:02 PM
 
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Really fellas? A lot of dudes out there scream to the high heavens of how fat chicks are repulsive or they'll never date or touch a fat woman or how fat women are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes dating. But lo and behold if you actually look outside your house you'll see that there are several overweight women who have BF's/husbands and are in relationships.

In all honesty. Is it time for this idea that 'fat women are the bottom of the totem pole need to die'?

Because seriously at this point the men who say this need to just speak for themselves.
The guys who say this are mainly the dweeb boys who spend all day reading anime and fantasizing about sleek Asian commando type women breaking down their doors to deflower them.

Truthfully, although most guys might PREFER for their women to be sleek and slim, the vast majority of men gladly accept and love the heavy women. They have to if they want women. Most women are now or will be overweight at some point in their lives. Don't take my word for it. Just take a look around. Go to any large public gathering and you'll see hundreds, if not thousands, of perfectly decent plump women hand-in-hand with their fellas.

Of course they are not as undesirable as a "lot" of guys say.
 
Old 10-19-2012, 04:02 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Really fellas? A lot of dudes out there scream to the high heavens of how fat chicks are repulsive or they'll never date or touch a fat woman or how fat women are at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes dating. But lo and behold if you actually look outside your house you'll see that there are several overweight women who have BF's/husbands and are in relationships.

In all honesty. Is it time for this idea that 'fat women are the bottom of the totem pole need to die'?

Because seriously at this point the men who say this need to just speak for themselves.
I never had a problem attracting men. And heck, if Honey Boo Boo's mom can get a man, what does that say? LOL...I'm not morbidly obese but I need to drop 40 lbs. Apparently there can't be that much dislike since there's a song for us gal's with a little junk in the trunk!


Queen - 'Fat Bottomed Girls' - YouTube
 
Old 10-19-2012, 04:08 PM
 
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Fat bottomed......thick in all the right places.........COMPLETELY different than being obese.

Most guys prefer their women to be in decent shape just like women prefer their men to be in good shape. It goes both ways.

I personally prefer a women with a thin waist. I absolutely love curves, but the stomach is the biggie.

I say if the big girls want to attract more men than hit the gym and get that exercise going. It doesn't take much to get started in right direction.
 
Old 10-19-2012, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I never had a problem attracting men. And heck, if Honey Boo Boo's mom can get a man, what does that say? LOL...I'm not morbidly obese but I need to drop 40 lbs. Apparently there can't be that much dislike since there's a song for us gal's with a little junk in the trunk!


Queen - 'Fat Bottomed Girls' - YouTube
My theme song.
 
Old 10-19-2012, 04:10 PM
 
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There's too many fat women who are dating, in relationships, married and with kids for that to be true
 
Old 10-19-2012, 04:16 PM
 
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Alrighty, we're on a roll, (no pun intended,) with the fat chic theme this month, good, October = Halloween, one of my favorite holiday's. Let the festivities begin.
 
Old 10-19-2012, 04:16 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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My theme song.

Yep, mine too

My husband never liked very thin women. He said he felt like they were going to break and he didn't like feeling bones pressed up against him LOL..I've had very fit law enforcement agents and firefighters not have a problem with my thick bottom and thighs.
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