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You're still young. Don't worry about it. I've seen some absolutely stunning 41 year old wonen, many of whom look better than they did in their 20's and 30's.
You're still young. Don't worry about it. I've seen some absolutely stunning 41 year old wonen, many of whom look better than they did in their 20's and 30's.
Luckily I look good for my age so am considering younger men if taco man doesn't work out.
I don't want to deal with the idea he has already been through the wedding/kids thing and so much more.
Ok. But you are a serious late bloomer so good luck digging through the gem that is also a late bloomer. You are only like 4 years away from living in an adult community.
I am NOT bending on dating men with kids, please knock this off. I do not want to come after the kids, I do not want to pay for his kids or exwife (see last page where I posted something about stepparents and child support), I will only marry in church (and let's be honest many men who have been married don't want to remarry). I don't want to reschedule dates because of his kids, I don't want to deal with the drama. I don't want to deal with the idea he has already been through the wedding/kids thing and so much more.
That's all fine and well, but you are the one complaining about being alone.
Ok. But you are a serious late bloomer so good luck digging through the gem that is also a late bloomer. You are only like 4 years away from living in an adult community.
Huh? Adult community are for 55 and above, I am 41.
Why? because he can't marry in church, he pays child support and I might have to contribute to it myself (or at least have less household income because of this), I come last after his kids and his wife, the drama. Want me to keep going on?
That's only if you date someone who impregnated a bum.
If you date someone who has a child to a decent normal human being, there are no problems, nor requirements on your income.
It seems a shame to eliminate all men who are fathers, based on some inaccurate prejudices. A lot of men your age have grown kids by now, anyway, and are actively looking for another life partner...at least where I live.
Your religion isn't an reason either. All he would need do is obtain an anullment, and he's good to go. You could have the biggest fluffiest church wedding since Kim Kartrashian then.
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