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Old 12-15-2012, 01:35 PM
 
Location: In the city
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So she's completely psycho and even gets turned down by average men



Meh, send her my way, I would love to have a girl who likes me that much

I would not recommend that unless you are ready for marriage. Because that is what she wants-- marriage, family and all within short order. Like next month.
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Old 12-15-2012, 01:38 PM
 
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I would not recommend that unless you are ready for marriage. Because that is what she wants-- marriage, family and all within short order. Like next month.

Your friend is the fitness equivalent of those fat girls who have beautiful genetics but are fat because they eat 4,000 calories a day
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Old 12-15-2012, 01:40 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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she has a lot of good things going for her.
This may be a basically good person with a mental disorder: OCD, which may be easily remedied. OP, you might consider posting about this in the Psychology forum, to see if people there can provide info on what the prospects are for treating the OCD.
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Old 12-15-2012, 01:44 PM
 
Location: Central California
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This may be a basically good person with a mental disorder: OCD, which may be easily remedied. OP, you might consider posting about this in the Psychology forum, to see if people there can provide info on what the prospects are for treating the OCD.
She just needs to relax and be cool. Simple.
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Old 12-15-2012, 01:46 PM
 
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She just needs to relax and be cool. Simple.

To make a fitness to dating analogy, I'm going to use this picture

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OP's friend is the chick on the left, except that she DOES eat like a hippo every day (with her psycho clinginess)

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Old 12-15-2012, 01:53 PM
 
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To make a fitness to dating analogy, I'm going to use this picture





OP's friend is the chick on the left, except that she DOES eat like a hippo every day (with her psycho clinginess)
Wtf are you talking about?
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Old 12-15-2012, 02:01 PM
 
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Wtf are you talking about?

Women don't have to do anything to have a nice figure - just don't eat like a pig
Women don't have to do anything to get a man - just don't be a psycho



Does that make sense?
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Old 12-15-2012, 02:03 PM
 
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Women don't have to do anything to have a nice figure - just don't eat like a pig
Women don't have to do anything to get a man - just don't be a psycho



Does that make sense?
Nope. It doesn't. There are many factors that go into having a nice figure and how much you eat only plays a small part, especially if you're a woman. Women store fat differently than men, and also metabolize energy differently.

You can't just treat people as if they're some sort of monolith.
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Old 12-15-2012, 02:07 PM
 
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Men don't have to go to the gym either, especially in their 20's, when they have good hormonal balance. Unless they sit around playing video games and eating junk food. Many women don't like that body-builder look.
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Old 12-15-2012, 02:14 PM
 
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She just needs to relax and be cool. Simple.
For normal people, yeah. But it sounds like she may have a brain chemistry imbalance that prevents her from being able to do that.
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