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Remember men have penises, women have vagina's but both are in possession and have the capability of being ***holes.
that's nice. I've never had the same kinds of run ins with women that I have with men in life....anyway I don't remember saying all women were 'nice' when rejecting men. Obviously some of them aren't.
I agree... men are rude when rejecting women as well. I don't like this behavior at all.
I would be flattered if someone found me attractive, even if i didn't find them attractive.
I don't like to see people being mean like that.
It's bad enough that you have to tell the person you'd be happier without their company... is there really any reason to add insults and condescending remarks?
But yes, you are right, i have seen some men be very rude to women, and i think it's disgusting behavior.
I don't even see the point of telling the person you'd be better of without their company. any of the people that do those kinds of things do it b/c they get off on it. IMO, they also love the ego boost. I used to have a female friend that was attractive and she shot guys down with rude remarks. But they always kept coming & she was never at a shortage for male attention. Typical!
that's nice. I've never had the same kinds of run ins with women that I have with men in life....anyway I don't remember saying all women were 'nice' when rejecting men. Obviously some of them aren't.
I know you never said that but I was trying to keep it on track about rejection and not it into another gender war as fun they are to watch I am a good day today.
I know you never said that but I was trying to keep it on track about rejection and not it into another gender war as fun they are to watch I am a good day today.
I don't even see the point of telling the person you'd be better of without their company. any of the people that do those kinds of things do it b/c they get off on it. IMO, they also love the ego boost. I used to have a female friend that was attractive and she shot guys down with rude remarks. But they always kept coming & she was never at a shortage for male attention. Typical!
Yes i agree, i think people do it for an ego trip. It's arrogant and disgusting.
I'm not saying you literally have to tell the person you are better off without them, but that's basically what you are implying by rejecting someone. That's the message you are sending, by definition. But no, you should not actually say those words.
But yea, the best way to not get rejected is to just pay for it.
Rejection seems to be at its worse when it's a string of rejections. When it's one every now and then, and it's separated by success, the pain of rejection is very temporary. Just like people remain happy when they have a string of good luck go their way. The same can be applied for a string of bad luck (rejection), which makes it harder to come full circle and be happy again. Some just have to wallow for a bit longer to feel better.
Rejection seems to be at its worse when it's a string of rejections. When it's one every now and then, and it's separated by success, the pain of rejection is very temporary. Just like people remain happy when they have a string of good luck go their way. The same can be applied for a string of bad luck (rejection), which makes it harder to come full circle and be happy again. Some just have to wallow for a bit longer to feel better.
As another poster said i think rejection is easier when youve had sucess attractign the opsite sex before and you know if one says no another one will say yes..
When youve had nothing but rejection and never had sucess in attracting the opposite sex rejection stings more because you feel like youre never gonna get a yes..
I agree... men are rude when rejecting women as well. I don't like this behavior at all.
I would be flattered if someone found me attractive, even if i didn't find them attractive.
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I'm the same way. It is a good feeling when someone (of the opposite sex) finds me attractive.
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