Do you think it's appropriate for your boyfriend... (dating, girls, single)

[xxbabeechick]

Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope

Wait a minute, is this about you complimenting men friends, or your bf complimenting women friends?



Either way, it seems like you've got a massive double standard going on there.

I'm just speaking in general.

Of course you always see some "issue" when you post on my threads.

[MsAnnThrope]

Originally Posted by xxbabeechick

I'm just speaking in general.

Of course you always see some "issue" when you post on my threads.

That is because I find your threads reveal "issues".

Mainly to do with self esteem.

[Raena77]

Op I will compliment who I want. And if he wants to compliment some gal, he can. Now if I see he wants to take her dress off with his teeth.
I will cut his christmas balls off.

[weezerfan84]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

No, you can't say they look sexy. It's not appropriate to say a platonic, opposite-sex friend looks sexy if you are in a relationship.

It's a matter of respect for your partner and your friend.

I kind of have to agree here. Not so much about the comment, but the word chosen to acknowledge a look. Sexy is usually held for the partner of interest or someone you may want to be intimate with. If I comment on something related to fashion, I just say that it's a nice outfit. It's hard to get jealous over an innocent comment like that. Using words like sexy, hot, or beautiful would clearly rub me, and likely my partner, the wrong way.

[xxbabeechick]

Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope

That is because I find your threads reveal "issues".

Yes. Your issues/obsession with me.

[MsAnnThrope]

Originally Posted by xxbabeechick

Yes. Your issues/obsession with me.

Yes I just can't get enough of you, you are fascinating beyond compare.

By the way I notice you didn't answer the question so here it is again in red -

Quote:
Originally Posted by xxbabeechick

The reality is that you know the person you're with is attracted to other people and that's normal and natural.

But comments on facebook are a form of communication. Not only do you find her attractive you want her to know you do. Why? That's the point.

Wait a minute, is this about you complimenting men friends, or your bf complimenting women friends?



Either way, it seems like you've got a massive double standard going on there.

[D217]

My bf better not comment anyone's pics but mine!!!! lol

[cpg35223]

Well are we talking about "You look great" or "My God, I love your bazongas. I want to motorboat those puppies"?

Big difference between one and the other. If he says the first thing and you're worried, then you're insecure as hell. If he says the second thing and you're not worried, then you should be.

[xxbabeechick]

Wait a minute, is this about you complimenting men friends, or your bf complimenting women friends?


Your vision lacking nowadays???

Originally Posted by xxbabeechick

I'm just speaking in general.

[amanda0808]

Calling someone else 'sexy' or anything along those lines is disrespectful to both your partner and that person's partner. Unless there is some kind of dynamic whereby all parties typically talk like that (in a joking/light-hearted manner).