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Old 02-01-2013, 11:22 AM
 
Location: Columbus, Ohio
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Still makes me wonder what types of "beautiful" women you attract and are attracted to.

And you may be simple enough to only be in it for a pretty face, but there's more to it for other men.
And to be frank, I honestly wish he would take that condescending 'Ha! I'm from Krypton and you're not! Worship me!' bulldirkey and bury it under a rock somedangwhere

It's a wonderful thing to be confident, and quite another to be an overbearing nimrod about it...sorry for his luck, but I've had a pair for many years, I'm not 'socially inhibited (WTF? You aren't the ony one here capable of speaking up, Alfalfa)', nor 'conditioned'...anyone who reads my posts here knows I have absolutely no problem speaking my mind 24/7

And who asked him to speak for your husband anyway? Not you, and sure as hell not me...I won't sit here and front and say a pretty face DOESN'T turn my head, mind you, but if she has no other redeeming qualities, then the deal's off---and I'm sure a lot of women feel the same way about us men
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Old 02-01-2013, 11:23 AM
 
Location: USA
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I second ImportersWife in questioning what type of women you know.

I had a lot of female friends in my early 20s and the great majority had their head on straight and dated good men. Maybe 1 or 2 had an affinity for bad boys.

I love the look of the bad boy, but if the heart's not gold it doesn't work.
"Maybe 1 or 2 had an affinity for bad boys. "
The vast majority of the young women and men I know are rather normal too, but rarely get noticed. The bad boy and bad girl type of behavior is what most people pay attention too. It's out there, it's in your face, it's Lindsay Lohan not Aunt Bee. It's not human nature to remember the mundane.

The "Bad boy" is like a shiny toy that some women are drawn to. Self proclaimed bad boys not included. If you have to proclaim yourself as a bad boy, most likely your not.

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Old 02-01-2013, 11:30 AM
 
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The "Bad boy" is like a shiny toy that some women are drawn to. self proclaimed bad boys not included. If you have to proclaim yourself as a bad boy, most likely your not.
LOL about the self proclaimed part.
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Old 02-01-2013, 11:34 AM
 
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"Maybe 1 or 2 had an affinity for bad boys. "
The vast majoity of the young women and men I know are rather normal too, but rarely get noticed. The bad boy and bad girl type of behavior is what most people pay attention too. It's not human nature to remember the mundane.
I'm confused. You agreed with Ascension who said "almost all" women in that age range, blah blah blah. And you said you see it all the time in that age range.

I said I rarely see that behavior...
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Old 02-01-2013, 11:34 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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I second ImportersWife in questioning what type of women you know.

I had a lot of female friends in my early 20s and the great majority had their head on straight and dated good men. Maybe 1 or 2 had an affinity for bad boys.

I love the look of the bad boy, but if the heart's not gold it doesn't work.
I believe you but I bet that most of these women got with men who made MORE MONEY than they did.

Young women today want primarily wealthy guys and bad boys.
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Old 02-01-2013, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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I disagree. Almost all women spend all of their peak years (18-24) chasing jerks. Real life proves it every day and in millions of cases. There are exceptions out there, but as usual they only support the rule.
Yep, in western society, primarily america, young women mainly chase rich guys and bad boys.

Women in latin america, india and asia don't really chase bad boys like western women do.
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Old 02-01-2013, 11:38 AM
 
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I believe you but I bet that most of these women got with men who made MORE MONEY than they did.

Young women today want primarily wealthy guys and bad boys.
Well, wealthy guys and bad boys aren't always in the same category.

I can't read every woman's mind as far as their dating preferences. Who I see young women date though doesn't match up with what you say they want.
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Old 02-01-2013, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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The problem with women who like bad boys is that they expect POINTDEXTER to take care of them when they get older.

They gave their BEST years to the bad boys and want the NICE GUY to help raise her children.
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Old 02-01-2013, 11:40 AM
 
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The problem with women who like bad boys is that they expect POINTDEXTER to take care of them when they get older.

They gave their BEST years to the bad boys and want the NICE GUY to help raise her children.
I don't see young women today wanting "pointdexter" to take care of them...they are getting an education so they can take care of themselves.
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Old 02-01-2013, 11:41 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I don't see young women today wanting "pointdexter" to take care of them...they are getting an education so they can take care of themselves.
And they're dating young men at about their same educational and professional level.
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