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Originally Posted by Benjamin1986
Thanks for the advice. I have asked her about her feelings towards him since she first mentioned him and she said that she would never go back to him if he got on his knees and begged which made me feel good then and I also asked if she felt ready for a serious relationship and said yes. However as you can see this issue still bothers me so I guess I need to sit down with her and have a heart o heart conversation before I make any decision.
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She might not go back to him but she might share a night with him if the opportunity arises.
Fact is, she still thinks about him and the times they had. You can ask her not to talk about it so you don't have to hear it but you can't stop her from thinking about it. You're better off hearing it, at least then you'll know what she is thinking and feeling.
Another thing, don't "compare" relationships. Don't ask if she enjoys the sex with you better than him (or someone else), don't ask if she loves you as much as she did him, etc.